GF of 3 years left me yesterday....

[Pushead2]

another thing is she has NO family here in NYC & very little friends....She's from Oklahoma but came here to go to NYU.

So the fact that she's willing to accept being VERY lonely is making me think it's over but at the same time thinking once she sees how lonely she will be she'll think twice.

[HMc]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

another thing is she has NO family here in NYC & very little friends....She's from Oklahoma but came here to go to NYU.

So the fact that she's willing to accept being VERY lonely is making me think it's over but at the same time thinking once she sees how lonely she will be she'll think twice.

chicks think about this shit differently - I wouldn't worry too much about that.

Like I (and everyone else) has said, create a perception that you're doing real well without her, and she'll want to come aboard again.

It's VERY difficult to do, but it's the way to do it.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by HMc

chicks think about this shit differently - I wouldn't worry too much about that.

Like I (and everyone else) has said, create a perception that you're doing real well without her, and she'll want to come aboard again.

It's VERY difficult to do, but it's the way to do it.

yeah it is, I kindheartedly agree. Once my travel team in late February starts playing in country wide tournaments again. It will be a lot easier.

Right now, 1 step/day at a time.

[HMc]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

yeah it is, I kindheartedly agree. Once my travel team in late February starts playing in country wide tournaments again. It will be a lot easier.

Right now, 1 step/day at a time.

to be honest, your sporting commitments are a godsend as they'll keep you busy.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by HMc

to be honest, your sporting commitments are a godsend as they'll keep you busy.

oh yeah, I love playing hockey. If I had to choose between dating her & my hockey leagues. I'd tell her to go fly a kite.

I guess the same was for her school over me. Time to go on with my business.

[FAX]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

oh yeah, I love playing hockey. If I had to choose between dating her & my hockey leagues. I'd tell her to go fly a kite.

I guess the same was for her school over me. Time to go on with my business.

Perhaps ... some day ... you won't have to make that choice, Mr. Pushead2.

There's a time for puckin' and there's a time for ****in'.

FAX

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by FAX

Perhaps ... some day ... you won't have to make that choice, Mr. Pushead2.

There's a time for puckin' and there's a time for ****in'.

FAX

she's the one who made the choice for studyin' over ****in.

Always down for puckin' & ****in'

[MOhillbilly]

Originally Posted by HMc

chicks think about this shit differently - I wouldn't worry too much about that.

Like I (and everyone else) has said, create a perception that you're doing real well without her, and she'll want to come aboard again.

It's VERY difficult to do, but it's the way to do it.

Its not very difficult.

Reach down grab your sack and move on.


Easy. All win.

[Pushead2]

Originally Posted by MOhillbilly

Its not very difficult.

Reach down grab your sack and move on.


Easy. All win.

Manly advice....I dig it

[DeezNutz]

Originally Posted by MOhillbilly

Its not very difficult.

Reach down grab your sack and move on.


Easy. All win.

I'm in agreement with MO, here.

The most reassuring thing for you should be the confidence that you're going to be just fine. I'm speculating that she was your "best friend" because you were spending a ton of time with her, naturally, more so than you were spending with your other friends. This will change.

You'll find someone new presently, and if she moves on more quickly than you, have a cold one and try not to get too surprised. Easier said than done, of course.

[FAX]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

another thing is she has NO family here in NYC & very little friends....She's from Oklahoma but came here to go to NYU.

So the fact that she's willing to accept being VERY lonely is making me think it's over but at the same time thinking once she sees how lonely she will be she'll think twice.

All this talk about "her" is bad. Real bad.

Ask yourself this; if she were run over by a train and the doctors saved her life but put her together so she looks like a cross between a kangaroo and Ralph Waldo Emerson, would you care as much? I don't think so.

Imagine that she has been struck by a train. Mourn. Then focus on yourself.

FAX

[ClevelandBronco]

Originally Posted by FAX

All this talk about "her" is bad. Real bad.

Ask yourself this; if she were run over by a train and the doctors saved her life but put her together so she looks like a cross between a kangaroo and Ralph Waldo Emerson, would you care as much? I don't think so.

Imagine that she has been struck by a train. Mourn. Then focus on yourself.

FAX

Get this tattooed on whatever clear patch of skin you have left. It's that important.

It'll hurt like a bitch, but then, so does love and getting run over by a train.

Don't get the FAX part tattooed. That would be weird and it would just raise uncomfortable questions with the next chick.

[beach tribe]

Originally Posted by Pushead2

another thing is she has NO family here in NYC & very little friends....She's from Oklahoma but came here to go to NYU.

So the fact that she's willing to accept being VERY lonely is making me think it's over but at the same time thinking once she sees how lonely she will be she'll think twice.

He is wrong PM, but why the **** did I have to be the asshole to make him privy to it.

Girls don't leave guys to be alone, unless she HATES him, and cannot strand the sight of him. Doesn't sound like this is the case with the two of you.