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10-31-2018, 12:29 AM | #106 |
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Big hug Man. I guarantee you you will find happiness again. Drive to that goal and be patient. And keep playing music. It takes you to a better place. And you are good. Everything will be OK. I like you man and am pulling for you. Peace out.
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10-31-2018, 12:40 AM | #107 |
Everybody Lies.
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Hell it happens to everyone. I live in a decent apartment, have a shitty car that could break down at any time (and with the cold coming...probably will soon) and live on crappy paycheck to paycheck where it's horribly difficult to save or invest any. 35 years old and no girlfriend at the moment. All of that aside I'm pretty happy most of the time. Just don't dwell on it. Find something to do and push on.
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10-31-2018, 12:44 AM | #108 |
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Shitty car sucks ballz.
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10-31-2018, 01:46 AM | #109 |
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Sorry to hear it buddy. But, you'll bounce back. Just give it some time.
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10-31-2018, 02:36 AM | #110 |
I'm the MFCEO
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10-31-2018, 06:07 AM | #111 |
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Good point! I recommend a happy tune with melancholy lyrics.
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10-31-2018, 07:13 AM | #112 |
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Take up a new hobby.....try to experience new things in life....PM me if you ever wanna talk about something....hopefully you will see improvement on the things that you want to see improvement in. Good luck and take care of yourself!
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10-31-2018, 07:18 AM | #113 | |
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10-31-2018, 07:50 AM | #114 | |
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This is excellent advice.
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10-31-2018, 04:54 PM | #115 |
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I feel your pain rabblerouser. Depression is a difficult life-block that is hard to get around. I don't think ever goes away, you just learn to deal with it, in a healthy way. If possible, I think you should reach out to therapy. Likely, the therapist has heard your story or similar, many times.
Try to trust an expert, this could be your path of least resistance, to peace of mind. If you're depressed, likely you're seeking the path of least resistance in everything you do. So therapy is a win, win. |
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10-31-2018, 05:28 PM | #116 |
It's just a ride.
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Only posting to say what's already been said.
See a therapist. It's their job to help you get through this kind of stuff. They go through like 10 years of schooling for it. Do it.
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10-31-2018, 05:43 PM | #117 |
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Get your ass in your car, move to NY and get job as a waiter or loading trucks in the meantime. If your company isn't going to keep you on or hire you back because you have to move a couple states over, trust me, you're not that valuable to them in the first place.
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10-31-2018, 06:29 PM | #118 | |
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Was going to two sessions a week for the first month or so. Getting everything out to someone changed my life. Two visits a week turned to once a week, which turned to once every two weeks, then after a while I was strong enough on my own to ease off the therapy. After therapy I moved away, which I always dreamed of doing, got my degree, and now I’ve moved again for work. Build a foundation for yourself and live the best life you can. I’d stay away from any meds. Don’t mask the problem, face it head on. You’ll feel better, far better, 6 months from now if you do. Trust me. Best of luck to you. Feel free to reach out to me if you need anything. |
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10-31-2018, 08:53 PM | #119 |
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Hey Rabble,
I'll open up a bit. This time of the year is tough on my depression. Seems like it's always ****ing dark. Today was the last day this shitty diner was open. It used to be good. Anyway when I first discovered it was really ****ing good. It was when my mom was dying of cancer. Literally going there alone was my "safe space" for those few hours all the stress and sadness of seeing her dying was my getaway to some good food with interesting people watching and good oldies music being played. I didnt smoke or drink back then going there was literally my get away how stupid is that? I was the first customer in line today. The meal ****ing sucked I didnt even finish it which probably added to my depression but it also brought back all those memories of the shit I went through with my mom and even the good times. Sorry this post is emo. Just know theres people struggling with ya and I'm always here to talk. Things will get better brother. |
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