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Old 04-30-2018, 04:27 PM  
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When a female friend stops talking to you...
This will be sorta long, but I'm curious at what CP responses will be.

So to preface this, I'm married and I've been taken for 12 years happily. Met my wife when I was 16, she was 14.

The day before this past Superbowl I met an attractive 18 year old girl who was invited out to KC from Manhattan to hang out. Didn't know anything about her until we met at Twin Peaks (because she wanted to check it out). My wife, the friend who introduced us, and another friend all stayed there having a great time talking and getting to know eachother. She came across as very mature for her age. I don't typically like 18 year olds as they tend to be very annoying to me, but we got along pretty well.

So after 3 hours at Twin Peaks we all went back to my apartment for more party time. Played music, danced around, I responsibly allowed the 18 year old to drink a little wine and she was extremely comfortable around us. She ended up with her top off in the apartment dancing around. Great time all around despite staying up until 3AM. I thought she was a cool chick, but didn't think much else of it.

Superbowl Sunday morning she left to watch the game with her grandparents who are big Tom Brady fans, and I didn't really know when or if she'd come back to hang out. But she ended up sending me a Snapchat pic of her "reaction" to the game. I didn't respond to it.

The next day she sends me another Snapchat pic. I think to myself 'well I'm not going to just ignore her forever, I'll respond and say what's up'.

Well from then on, she became obsessed with interacting with me. Every single morning she'd send me a Snapchat pic and we'd just kind of talk throughout the day from there getting to know eachother. About 3 weeks in she'd send something nearly every single hour during the day and if I didn't respond she'd send another asking why I didn't respond yet. She would be sad when I would let her know, I'm home from work and I gotta spend time with my wife, I can't really talk. I'll admit it was nice feeling like I was needed or making a difference in her having a better day.

I was beginning to consider her a good friend, and I enjoyed the conversations. She'd been promising to come back to KC to hang out again, but that hasn't happened yet. That's ok.

So about 2.5 months into this I began to notice she'd send messages less frequently. And she was really slowing down and backing off. Kinda strange, I was wondering if I had said something that she didn't like considering it was very unlike her to NOT be going to me immediately in the mornings each day. She met a boyfriend about a month ago. And although I've met allll of her other friends, her boyfriend she hasn't even let me see or say hi to via Snapchat of course. At one point I asked why she hasn't introduced me yet, and she didn't have much of a reaction and I could tell she had no intentions of wanting me to meet him.

Right now we're down to very minimal interaction over the past 3 weeks. My friend who introduced us said her name the other day so I jokingly responded with "M----, who's that? Never heard of her". At that point he was worried his own friends weren't getting along so he texted her saying exactly what I said (Damn bastard). She responds with "WHY THO WHY THO?" then immediately texts me asking if I'm ok and why I'd say that. I just let her know it was a joke and everything is fine. But that's pretty much the last time we've said anything to eachother.

I'm not chasing her as a friend, I just don't understand why things change the way they do and what makes a female just suddenly stop interacting with a guy friend? I have never played this little chasing game with girls nor ever needed to, but I did enjoy our conversations and company which is why it matters to me.

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Old 04-30-2018, 05:08 PM   #46
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No, she asked me to go to Manhattan to hang out instead of KC. I refused.
Wait, you didn't jump when she said so, and now a really young woman has lost interest? You were a game, and attention for her. Move on and try to forget about her quickly. You probably here from her on down the road again. Ignore her and you win
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Old 04-30-2018, 05:08 PM   #47
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She's got a boyfriend man. And you got a wife.
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Old 04-30-2018, 05:08 PM   #48
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What Vailpass said...the fever. I'll add a term to that. Emotional affair.

You gotta hit the eject button on all things related to that girl and be GLAD she's doing the right thing and cutting it off with you.
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Old 04-30-2018, 05:09 PM   #49
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Old 04-30-2018, 05:10 PM   #51
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Old 04-30-2018, 05:12 PM   #52
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She's got a boyfriend man. And you got a wife.
You can’t be friends with an opposite sex if they’re taken?
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She's got a boyfriend man. And you got a wife.
Do I hear the foursome alarm going off?
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What Vailpass said...the fever. I'll add a term to that. Emotional affair.

You gotta hit the eject button on all things related to that girl and be GLAD she's doing the right thing and cutting it off with you.
Yes. Emotional affair is as bad and sometimes worse
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You can’t be friends with an opposite sex if they’re taken?
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You can’t be friends with an opposite sex if they’re taken?
It's why she's grown distant. She has a dude now and he might not be too keen on her face snapping another dude.
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Old 04-30-2018, 05:13 PM   #58
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I'm going to ask you a question and you have to be 100% honest. Dont worry about the rest of the dumbasses here giving you shit, just be honest:

When you do your wife what percentage of the time are you imagining its her? Dont even say never because then we'll know you're full of shit.
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You can’t be friends with an opposite sex if they’re taken?
Ya can't push that man/woman thing too far. One will always fall for the other in these scenarios
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Unless your wife is fully aware of - and okay with - the amount of contact you have had and the nature of the communications you are having...

You are cheating on your wife. It's an emotional relationship.

If she's okay with it and fully in the know, well then, cool.
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