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Old 06-06-2018, 09:51 PM  
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So, I just found out I'm going to be a dad...

You guys are the first people to know outside of my own family. I had to tell SOMEONE.

Backstory: I'm 33 years old. I'm married to the love of my life. We've been together for 16 years, married for 3. That's a long ****ing time.

I had a bit of a dead-beat dad growing up, and I know that I have it in me to give this kid everything I wish I'd had in my own childhood and more.

I know there are some fantastic dads here on CP, so what do I need to know? What are your best dad tips?

Spare me the "your life is over" bullshit. I've traveled the world, I've climbed mountains, I've swam in every Ocean and set foot on every continent. As far as I'm concerned, this sounds like an adventure unlike any I've ever undertaken, and I can't wait!
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Old 06-06-2018, 10:17 PM   #16
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Old 06-06-2018, 10:18 PM   #17
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And I’ve got three daughters. Tom Segura said it best. You’ll never have enough time but you’ll always have moments.
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Old 06-06-2018, 10:20 PM   #18
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Congrats man. Kids are amazing.

Thing is every kid is different. Like WAAAAY different. You just have to work to solve the puzzle.
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Old 06-06-2018, 10:25 PM   #19
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Half of the battle is knowing that you want to be a good dad. That means being a good example in how you treat the mother so a son learns how to treat women or a daughter learns how they should expect to be treated. You'll make mistakes, you'll lose your cool, you'll probably get frustrated(I know based on tonight). It's ok. Stop when you realize it, regroup and do better next time.

You don't fully understand what it means to know you'd physically fight a lion for another person until you see and hold your own kid.

Congratulations and good luck.
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Old 06-06-2018, 10:29 PM   #20
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Old 06-06-2018, 10:31 PM   #21
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Old 06-06-2018, 10:50 PM   #22
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Congratulations man. In my mind it’s been the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done. The real fun begins when he/she can run. Consistency is key.
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Old 06-06-2018, 10:56 PM   #23
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You guys are the first people to know outside of my own family. I had to tell SOMEONE.

Backstory: I'm 33 years old. I'm married to the love of my life. We've been together for 16 years, married for 3. That's a long ****ing time.

I had a bit of a dead-beat dad growing up, and I know that I have it in me to give this kid everything I wish I'd had in my own childhood and more.

I know there are some fantastic dads here on CP, so what do I need to know? What are your best dad tips?

Spare me the "your life is over" bullshit. I've traveled the world, I've climbed mountains, I've swam in every Ocean and set foot on every continent. As far as I'm concerned, this sounds like an adventure unlike any I've ever undertaken, and I can't wait!
Give them yourself by being there while they grow up.
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Old 06-06-2018, 11:08 PM   #24
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Old 06-07-2018, 12:25 AM   #25
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The best advice I can think of right now is to take LOTS of pictures. LOTS.And print them out ,where you can put them in an album or a shoe box. Don't just leave them digital because eventually something will happen and your data will get wiped.
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Old 06-07-2018, 01:19 AM   #26
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Hey Strongside. I'm off CP for a bit and haven't logged on, intentionally, since my stupid ass AMA.

BUT, I did now solely to congratulate you and your wife. My advice is this; just don't kill the baby. Everything else will work out fine.

I remember the feeling you are having. Soak in it.
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Old 06-07-2018, 05:18 AM   #27
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Old 06-07-2018, 05:23 AM   #28
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Old 06-07-2018, 05:27 AM   #29
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You will be fine. It sounds like you know what to do and not. We never know it all.

Great parents raise great kids.
My kids hit the great parent lottery. Hope yours did too.
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Old 06-07-2018, 05:31 AM   #30
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I’ve got a 4 month old. First child for us. It’s more challenging and more sleep deprived than I could ever imagine. The good moments are great though.

My wife is not working for whoever knows how long. I have no idea how we’d manage if we were both back working. Hope you can make a similar choice.
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