Why I won’t date hot women anymore

[Hammock Parties]

This is priceless. Some of the tweets have been savage.

http://nypost.com/2017/04/12/why-hot...-worth-dating/

When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.

“I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper East Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair. “I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.”

He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.

“Beautiful women who get a fair amount of attention get full of themselves,” he says. “Eventually, I was dreading getting dinner with them because they couldn’t carry a conversation.”

According to new research, Rochkind’s ideas about sexy bikini babes are correct. A multipart study from Harvard University, University of La Verne and Santa Clara University researchers found that beautiful people are more likely to be involved in unstable relationships. In one part, the researchers looked at the top 20 actresses on IMDb and found that they tend to have rocky marriages. In another, women were asked to judge the attractiveness of 238 men based on their high school yearbook photos from 30 years ago. The men who were judged to be the best-looking had higher rates of divorce.

Looking to avoid such a fate, Rochkind started dating a woman who isn’t a bikini model, Carly Spindel, in January 2015. The two are now happily engaged.

The two met after Spindel’s mother, matchmaker Janis Spindel, scouted Rochkind at a gym.

“I gave him my card and said I have the perfect girl for him,” recalls Janis, founder of Serious Matchmaking, based in Midtown. “Successful men who are in shape have the pickings when it comes to dating, [but] eventually they want a woman of substance.”

Rochkind found that in Carly, 30, a lovely brunette who’s the vice president of her mother’s matchmaking company and a Syracuse University graduate. Rochkind proposed to her last May in Central Park. He loves that Carly isn’t like the swimsuit models he used to go for.

“[She] is a softer beauty, someone you can take home and cuddle with, and she’s very elegant,” Rochkind says. “And she’s 5-foot-2, so she can’t be a runway model, but I think she’s really beautiful and is prettier than anyone I’ve dated.”

Carly has no qualms about how her future husband views her compared with his exes.

“When men get to a certain age, they realize that it’s important to meet a life partner that they connect with,” she says. “Looks fade.”

Some great-looking people say they’re given a bad rap unfairly.

“When men see beautiful women, they are more concentrated on how she looks because they want to ‘have’ her, and so they don’t want to go deeper and get to know her,” says Isabell Giardini, a 22-year-old Italian beauty signed with Major Models. “And that’s why at the end of a date they wonder, ‘Oh that girl is so beautiful but so empty.’ That’s happened to me often.”

Others say the stereotypes about pretty people being shallow are true, even if they’re hotties themselves.

“From my personal experience, people who are better looking are less likely to pursue advanced degrees, or play an instrument or learn other languages,” says Benedict Beckeld, a 37-year-old Brooklyn writer with a doctorate in philosophy and the body of an Adonis. But he’s quick to note that he’s not just a great set of abs — he also plays the violin and speaks seven languages.

Rochkind is equally enthusiastic about his decision to give up high-maintenance hotties.

“There’s something to be said about sowing your wild oats and getting them out of your system,” says Rochkind, who will marry Carly in June at a “Tuscan-romantic” ceremony at the Wölffer Estate Vineyard in the Hamptons. But he doesn’t regret his past.

“You don’t want to be the first to leave the party, but you don’t want to leave the party too late either,” he says. “Carly came at exactly the right time.”

And now....THE TWEETS

"Beautiful women get full of themselves" says this guy who is totally not full of himself. pic.twitter.com/485RKwNZH4

— MatzohNoSheTwitnt (@OhNoSheTwitnt) April 13, 2017

COMING SOON: "Why I Dumped my Skinny Fat Piece of Shit Fiancé," by this woman pic.twitter.com/6PrdLW3KE4

— Mike Drucker (@MikeDrucker) April 13, 2017

@nypost "Balding guy with difficulty smiling for camera wanks himself to death after insurance company stops viagra script..."

— R👹DD👹V👹LBkLyN (@ReDDeViLNyC) April 13, 2017

@nypost Now he has to find women who will find his conversation bearable

— PhotoHand (@PhotoHand) April 13, 2017

[King_Chief_Fan]

..................you dating hot women anymore

[displacedinMN]

I did it for the same reasons.

[ThaVirus]

Originally Posted by scho63

Are any of you remaining idiots still debating why I hire hot escorts for $300-$500 an hour?

Originally Posted by scho63

I've had hotter pussy than 99% of you and I've spent so much less money. One day you'll figure it out

[ThaVirus]

Really, I'm just ****ing with you. I can understand why some guys choose to pay for pussy outright; we all "pay" for it in some way regardless. Your way is just not for me. There's no thrill in spending time with a girl who's only choosing to be with me because I paid her.

[burt]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

Really, I'm just ****ing with you. I can understand why some guys choose to pay for pussy outright; we all "pay" for it in some way regardless. Your way is just not for me. There's no thrill in spending time with a girl who's only choosing to be with me because I paid her.

I've done both. But there is a challenge in getting "freebies" from the pros!

[Hammock Parties]

Originally Posted by Lzen

Just to play devil's advocate....Didn't we learn a long time ago that Clay knows how to mask his IP? Perhaps mask isn't the correct word...fake his IP?

do you really think I would maintain a VPN charade on an account that barely posts, and when it does, posts almost nothing of consequence at highly sporadic intervals?

i mean...i could...but it seems like a lot of work for absolutely no reason.

[Fish]

Originally Posted by scho63

I've had hotter pussy than 99% of you and I've spent so much less money. One day you'll figure it out.

During my 16 days in Vegas, I've had two of these women. I doubt any or nearly none of your wives or girlfriend are this hot.
https://www.eros.com/nevada/las_vega...ip_escorts.htm

You seem to have quite the imaginative sex life... just the other day you were claiming this...

Originally Posted by scho63

I've only slept with 285-300 women and no men so I need both of you to give me some solid advice.

[BigCatDaddy]

Originally Posted by 19now11

clays a pillowbiter. he never dated a hot chick.

Weren't you the ASS lover that married Gonzo?

[Bowser]

Originally Posted by Fish

You seem to have quite the imaginative sex life... just the other day you were claiming this...

So he HAS spent as much money on women as married guys have spent on their wife?

[TimBone]

Originally Posted by scho63

Are any of you remaining idiots still debating why I hire hot escorts for $300-$500 an hour?

If your spending $400 an hour for every sexual encounter, I'm not sure you're the one saving money over us other guys.

[notorious]

Originally Posted by Bowser

So he HAS spent as much money on women as married guys have spent on their wife?

He paid by the pound.

[ThaVirus]

Originally Posted by Fish

You seem to have quite the imaginative sex life... just the other day you were claiming this...

In the past he admitted to rawdogging some Brazilian skank in a favela in the 80s. Dude's honestly lucky to be alive.

[vailpass]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

In the past he admitted to rawdogging some Brazilian skank in a favela in the 80s. Dude's honestly lucky to be alive.

You've never let the little head talk the big head into doing something dumb?
I know you have game, you've always been smart about it?

[DJ's left nut]

Originally Posted by ASS11

I'm dating a woman with a B cup.

Why?

I mean, I married one but it was just a few years later that I realized that they pretty much all come equipped with a C cup standard these days. Those things are like anti-lock brakes on a car - they used to be luxuries reserved for the fortunate few but now you really have to scrape the bottom of the barrel or even special order a ride without 'em.

[loochy]

Originally Posted by Fish

You seem to have quite the imaginative sex life... just the other day you were claiming this...

another genuine CP studmuffin