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Old 03-21-2010, 08:05 AM  
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My ex had her baby last night...
I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.
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Old 03-21-2010, 08:39 AM   #31
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I have tried to move on. Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife, 1 of them I actually cared about. I even stopped sleeping with my wife while I was with her. But she ended up going back to her ex then I started ****ing my wife again. Im not trying to act like this is normal or healthy, I know its ****ed up, but I cant help it. I love her. We grew up together, she's all Ive really known since I was 19. She's my best friend. Hell, my only real friend.
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Old 03-21-2010, 08:40 AM   #32
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It takes a lot for me to throw my compassion out of the window, but you're just making the decision to ruin yourself over and over and over again.....seriously, stop. Have some integrity and enough self respect to stop.
Yeah, it takes me a while to get to my scornful asshole phase on here... but I'm there with MTG at this point. He just doesn't deserve much sympathy anymore. He's obviously a masochist, though, so maybe he'll enjoy having people make fun of him on here for his continued stupidity.
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Old 03-21-2010, 08:41 AM   #33
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It takes a lot for me to throw my compassion out of the window, but you're just making the decision to ruin yourself over and over and over again.....seriously, stop. Have some integrity and enough self respect to stop.
He also should consider what it will eventually do to his kids. This behavior could come back to mess them up. This is a broken arrangement and kids learn from what they see. He's just setting them up for possible trouble down the road.
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Old 03-21-2010, 08:42 AM   #34
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I have tried to move on. Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife, 1 of them I actually cared about. I even stopped sleeping with my wife while I was with her. But she ended up going back to her ex then I started ****ing my wife again. Im not trying to act like this is normal or healthy, I know its ****ed up, but I cant help it. I love her. We grew up together, she's all Ive really known since I was 19. She's my best friend. Hell, my only real friend.
Despite the advice that many nimrods on here gave you, going out and ****ing a bunch of other women isn't the way to get over your ex. You need counseling and soul searching. You need to find yourself and stop being so codependent.
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I have tried to move on. Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife, 1 of them I actually cared about. I even stopped sleeping with my wife while I was with her. But she ended up going back to her ex then I started ****ing my wife again. Im not trying to act like this is normal or healthy, I know its ****ed up, but I cant help it. I love her. We grew up together, she's all Ive really known since I was 19. She's my best friend. Hell, my only real friend.
Moving on does not mean ****ing other women. Moving on means learning who you are and who you want to be. Your actions suggest you want to be the kind of man that ****s his life up over and over again.....is that really what you want to be?

I'm divorced. I know it's ****ING hard to let it all go. But at some point you have to start thinking with your head and not your heart and the problem is YOU have to intentionally make that decision. You aren't a victim and it's time for you to start taking control of your life and stop doing things to damage yourself.
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Old 03-21-2010, 08:45 AM   #36
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I have tried to move on. Ive been with 4 other girls since my wife, 1 of them I actually cared about. I even stopped sleeping with my wife while I was with her. But she ended up going back to her ex then I started ****ing my wife again. Im not trying to act like this is normal or healthy, I know its ****ed up, but I cant help it. I love her. We grew up together, she's all Ive really known since I was 19. She's my best friend. Hell, my only real friend.
You stated you started this thread to vent but I'm guessing deep down you're looking for a way out because you realize you're torchering yourself.

Take the advice you're being given. Use it as a crutch and every time you're tempted come back here and read this thread again.
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Old 03-21-2010, 08:45 AM   #37
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Despite the advice that many nimrods on here gave you, going out and ****ing a bunch of other women isn't the way to get over your ex. You need counseling and soul searching. You need to find yourself and stop being so codependent.
Exactly.
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and you need counseling....you seriously need counseling.
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Counseling costs $ that I dont have. And no my insurance doesnt cover it, Ive already looked into it...
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Old 03-21-2010, 08:49 AM   #40
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It doesnt feel like its another guys kid. It feels like its my kid. We've had 3 together, so seeing her and ****ing her while pregnant wasnt weird to me at all.
What? Adjust your budget to allow for a sex profesional. Cash up front no bullshit. Pound the heck out if it. You will feel better than spending the same amount of cash at a mental health profesional.

If she loves you maybe she will do a threesome that has better odds in your favor than the threesome you are in now. You know even the score for awhile. You have the classic sympoms of sloppy seconds.
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Counseling costs $ that I dont have. And no my insurance doesnt cover it, Ive already looked into it...
Instead of spending money on taking women on dates and trying to get laid, spend the money on counseling.
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Instead of spending money on taking women on dates and trying to get laid, spend the money on counseling.
THIS again.

If your ex really had genuine concern for you, she would immediatly stop the relationship with this other guy.
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Despite the advice that many nimrods on here gave you, going out and ****ing a bunch of other women isn't the way to get over your ex. You need counseling and soul searching. You need to find yourself and stop being so codependent.
Some people have been telling him this from the start. The nimrods you speak of, and who he listened to because they were telling him what he wanted to her, told him to ignore us. I'm glad to see a majority of people posting in here are the ones that have good advice.
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There's groups that offer cheap/free counseling. You just have to WANT to get help. What you're doing, will **** with your kids later on. Man up and get some help.
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Instead of spending money on taking women on dates and trying to get laid, spend the money on counseling.
I havent been spending money on women.
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