Am I friend zoned?

[kysirsoze]

Ran this by my girlfriend. She thinks, based on what you've said and "assuming this guy is not Quasimodo" she thinks there is some real interest here. Her recommendation is to make up an excuse that you are going to be in Joplin and see if she wants to meet up with you. Pick a random, specific weekend and ask about her availability. Feel out her response.

More likely than you being "friend-zoned" is that she might feel a little weird about someone she only knows online. She also might be wanting you to make the first strong effort. Give it a try and if you fail, then who cares about some girl on Tinder? (That last part was me)

[Carlota69]

Originally Posted by kysirsoze

Ran this by my girlfriend. She thinks, based on what you've said and "assuming this guy is not Quasimodo" she thinks there is some real interest here. Her recommendation is to make up an excuse that you are going to be in Joplin and see if she wants to meet up with you. Pick a random, specific weekend and ask about her availability. Feel out her response.

More likely than you being "friend-zoned" is that she might feel a little weird about someone she only knows online. She also might be wanting you to make the first strong effort. Give it a try and if you fail, then who cares about some girl on Tinder? (That last part was me)

This is exactly what you should do.