Life Best friend from back in the day just got out of the pen...

MTG#10 · 07-30-2014, 04:59 PM

This guy is probably the best friend I ever had, he would have given his life for me when we were young and helped me out of many poor decisions. Every fond memory of my childhood and teenage years up until 22 involved him in some way. Then he got locked up for multiple felonies, and I got married/started a family.

We kept in touch for several years, I'd often write and occasionally visit him, then he started getting in trouble in prison and went to the hole several times and lost pretty much all of his privileges. After awhile we lost touch...partially because he wasn't allowed to communicate with anyone other than immediate family, and partially because I moved on with my life.

Couple weeks ago he finds me on FB and told me he was free and wanted to kick it. I cautiously accepted and invited him over for some ribs this last weekend.

So we had a few beers and lots of laughs reminiscing over all the dumb shit we used to do as teens and all the road trips we went on. After awhile it started getting really hot outside and he took his shirt off...to my surprise the guy was covered in white supremacy/Neo-Nazi tattoos. At first he claimed he had to get them to survive in there, claimed he didn't really believe all that shit but it was either join the "SSG" and be protected, or take his chances getting his ass beaten/raped by blacks and whites.

But the more and more we talked it became quite obvious this is probably the most racist guys Ive ever known. I let it be known quick that I dont believe all that bullshit and didn't want to hear about it and he acted like he understood, but the more beers he got in him the more foul he became.

I'm trying not to judge him, I don't know what he went through in there but I cant be friends with someone like that. I feel bad because he's been calling and texting since and I havent replied...don't really know how to handle a situation like this. Ive already told him my views but I know he's not going to change his.

/MTG thread

TLO · 07-30-2014, 05:00 PM

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Rudy tossed tigger's salad · 07-30-2014, 05:05 PM

SW Missouri

**Rain Man** · 07-30-2014, 05:06 PM

Are you sure it's white supremacy, or is it just a lot of self-confidence?

MTG#10 · 07-30-2014, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain Man

Are you sure it's white supremacy, or is it just a lot of self-confidence?

I can always count on you sir.

Pepe Silvia · 07-30-2014, 05:07 PM

You have to realize that he was your friend from a different time in your life. I faced this same problem once, ran into a childhood friend that had moved to Nevada for 10 years, came back to Missouri and said he wanted to hang, the first day he tried to fight one of my current friends, I was so embarrassed, you have to cut him loose.

Just Passin' By · 07-30-2014, 05:10 PM

Pair him up with your ex-wife.

Problems solved.

MTG#10 · 07-30-2014, 05:11 PM

Oh hell no, I dont want his bigot ass anywhere near my kids...

keg in kc · 07-30-2014, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

So we had a few beers and lots of laughs reminiscing over all the dumb shit we used to do as teens and all the road trips we went on. After awhile it started getting really hot outside and he took his shirt off..

Raider fan version of a penthouse letter?

Just Passin' By · 07-30-2014, 05:14 PM

Those kids have to deal with you and your ex-wife forever, so they're already ****ed six ways from Sunday. What's one more issue?

**Donger** · 07-30-2014, 05:14 PM

What is "SSG"?

**Donger** · 07-30-2014, 05:15 PM

As to your neo-NAZI friend, I think that you should give him a history test and see if he passes it.

**Rain Man** · 07-30-2014, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger

What is "SSG"?

SuperSonic Gang, I bet.

**Donger** · 07-30-2014, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain Man

SuperSonic Gang, I bet.

I was going with Super Shower Gangbang, but I didn't want to be presumptuous.

MTG#10 · 07-30-2014, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger

What is "SSG"?

I dont know, some prison skinhead group or something. I'm sure MoHillbilly will chime in and explain.

07-30-2014, 04:59 PM
MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7444386	Best friend from back in the day just got out of the pen... This guy is probably the best friend I ever had, he would have given his life for me when we were young and helped me out of many poor decisions. Every fond memory of my childhood and teenage years up until 22 involved him in some way. Then he got locked up for multiple felonies, and I got married/started a family. We kept in touch for several years, I'd often write and occasionally visit him, then he started getting in trouble in prison and went to the hole several times and lost pretty much all of his privileges. After awhile we lost touch...partially because he wasn't allowed to communicate with anyone other than immediate family, and partially because I moved on with my life. Couple weeks ago he finds me on FB and told me he was free and wanted to kick it. I cautiously accepted and invited him over for some ribs this last weekend. So we had a few beers and lots of laughs reminiscing over all the dumb shit we used to do as teens and all the road trips we went on. After awhile it started getting really hot outside and he took his shirt off...to my surprise the guy was covered in white supremacy/Neo-Nazi tattoos. At first he claimed he had to get them to survive in there, claimed he didn't really believe all that shit but it was either join the "SSG" and be protected, or take his chances getting his ass beaten/raped by blacks and whites. But the more and more we talked it became quite obvious this is probably the most racist guys Ive ever known. I let it be known quick that I dont believe all that bullshit and didn't want to hear about it and he acted like he understood, but the more beers he got in him the more foul he became. I'm trying not to judge him, I don't know what he went through in there but I cant be friends with someone like that. I feel bad because he's been calling and texting since and I havent replied...don't really know how to handle a situation like this. Ive already told him my views but I know he's not going to change his. /MTG thread
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Pepe Silvia MVP Join Date: Oct 2012 Casino cash: $1744664	You have to realize that he was your friend from a different time in your life. I faced this same problem once, ran into a childhood friend that had moved to Nevada for 10 years, came back to Missouri and said he wanted to hang, the first day he tried to fight one of my current friends, I was so embarrassed, you have to cut him loose.
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MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7444386	Oh hell no, I dont want his bigot ass anywhere near my kids...
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Donger "Think BOOM!" Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: 33.675° N 106.475° W Casino cash: $10179900 VARSITY	As to your neo-NAZI friend, I think that you should give him a history test and see if he passes it. __________________ I think the young people enjoy it when I "get down," verbally, don't you?
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