Life GF of 3 years left me yesterday.... - Page 17

Pushead2 · 01-04-2011, 07:55 AM

She's going for her PhD, it takes up a lot of her time & I felt a tad bit neglected. I know it's tough for her as it is but I told her how I felt. She told me in response that she loves me to death but doesn't feel the same about being in love with me anymore.....

I'm still young & I've left a long relationship (4 years) before but this was different. She was more than my gf but my best friend too.....I was planning on proposing to her later this year but that's clearly out the window.

I'm getting 50/50 opinions from people on if I should just let her be & move on or fight for the girl I love / my best friend. She was all torn up hysterically crying last night when the conversation was going on.....Don't know, felt like I needed to air it out to a different crowd than my friends. What y'all think?

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 05:11 AM

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Originally Posted by beach tribe

You're gonna be fine dude. I turned into a biotch the first time this happened to me. The outta nowhere thing. I had actually already bought the ring. I am sooooooooo glad I never gave it to her. She'd probably be driving around in my Jeep right now.

yeah me too, a lot of people gave me shit for waiting to propose but there were factors that were in place that HAD to be finished first.

I'm glad & I know she's glad it didn't get that far too.

**Ming the Merciless** · 01-05-2011, 05:11 AM

If a bitch decides one day she doesn't love you, she never did love you.

She just said the words, for whatever reason.

They don't just stop loving....

They either love you or don't.

How anyone can do this for years.....is beyond my understanding.

**Dunit35** · 01-05-2011, 05:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

thanks dude, within a few weeks I'll be fine. I got get friends that surround me. It doesn't hurt that I'm an alternate captain on my hockey team so a lot of the players have been supportive of me & making sure I'm ok. It's like a small family we have.

It'll be easy for you with all those friends.

I had my sister and good friend by my side from day one.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 05:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Pawnmower

If a bitch decides one day she doesn't love you, she never did love you.

She just said the words, for whatever reason.

They don't just stop loving....

They either love you or don't.

How anyone can do this for years.....is beyond my understanding.

She said she loves me but she's not IN love with me. I've been there before in my life, it happens. I understand & move on.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 05:33 AM

thanks for the late night help. I'm up a lot during the over night hours and it's the loneliest time of the 24hrs.

I think that will be hard, I use to call her even though she was asleep just to say hello because I would feel less lonely.

Now that option is gone.....I think that scares me to death

Pioli Zombie · 01-05-2011, 05:35 AM

Speaking of women has anyone ever gone on a business trip with the hottest MILF in the office? How does one handle this? I'm going to have a perpetual chubby the whole time.

beach tribe · 01-05-2011, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

thanks for the late night help. I'm up a lot during the over night hours and it's the loneliest time of the 24hrs.

I think that will be hard, I use to call her even though she was asleep just to say hello because I would feel less lonely.

Now that option is gone.....I think that scares me to death

It will make you stronger.

**Dunit35** · 01-05-2011, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

thanks for the late night help. I'm up a lot during the over night hours and it's the loneliest time of the 24hrs.

I think that will be hard, I use to call her even though she was asleep just to say hello because I would feel less lonely.

Now that option is gone.....I think that scares me to death

the night hours were the loneliest time for me too, when all your support is sleeping. Play some video games, read a book, watch movies that don't involve romantic stuff.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 05:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Pioli Zombie

Speaking of women has anyone ever gone on a business trip with the hottest MILF in the office? How does one handle this? I'm going to have a perpetual chubby the whole time.

I did when I was 22 right before I start to see this girl. We had to go to San Diego, she was in charge of AP & I was in charge of Asset management for the client we were going to see.

For me I was single, so we ended having a few drinks & we had sex. I regret it because she had 3 kids & a husband.

She left her husband a few years ago, still not a consolation for me being the other guy / scumbag in that situation.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by beach tribe

It will make you stronger.

I hope, I've always felt alone during the overnight hours. it's terrifying to me. I don't know why.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Dunit35

the night hours were the loneliest time for me too, when all your support is sleeping. Play some video games, read a book, watch movies that don't involve romantic stuff.

I'm going to try that method being I just got NHL 11.

**Dunit35** · 01-05-2011, 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

I'm going to try that method being I just got NHL 11.

Good strategy. When I moved from her I immediately bought NCAA 08 and played the balls out of it. I bought an mp3 player and rocked out any chance I had to avoid thinking of her. It worked well.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 05:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Dunit35

Good strategy. When I moved from her I immediately bought NCAA 08 and played the balls out of it. I bought an mp3 player and rocked out any chance I had to avoid thinking of her. It worked well.

yeah I tried the iPhone on shuffle yesterday and the first song that came on was Colbie Caillat - I Never Told You & then Taylor Swift - Last Kiss.

Mind you my iPhone has 14gb of music. 12.9 is probably of metal, hardcore, death metal. Those two songs came 1 & 2. I started to cry but it's pretty funny since lol.

**Dunit35** · 01-05-2011, 05:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

yeah I tried the iPhone on shuffle yesterday and the first song that came on was Colbie Caillat - I Never Told You & then Taylor Swift - Last Kiss.

Mind you my iPhone has 14gb of music. 12.9 is probably of metal, hardcore, death metal. Those two songs came 1 & 2. I started to cry but it's pretty funny since lol.

Maybe you should make a playlist of every song but those two.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Dunit35

Maybe you should make a playlist of every song but those two.

yeah, I've thought about it. But now I know to just avoid those songs & songs like it like the plague.

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