Dare I ask CP?

[arrwheader]

So I am currently a senior at Wichita State studying MIS and graduating in May. So as some of you know once you get closer to graduating you get to know people that are the same major as you have to work with them in group projects.

So there has been this guy that's been in various of my classes and group projects that, well its pretty easy to tell that he's gay. I'm not gay but not homophobic. In my opinion if you're gay then whatever you're gay. So i didn't treat him any different then the rest of my classmates and only talked to him when it had to do with school, same as everyone else.

Anyways so one day I check my phone and this guy text me and tells me he has some kind of weird gay crush on me. Let me say that i have a girl friend and he knows this because he has been around me when i have talked about her so he definitely knows this. So this guy knows that i have a girl friend and knows that i am not gay i know some of you are thinking well there's probably something about you that made him think i might be gay ha ha yea blah blah well that's false i have done nothing to suggest i'm gay and am not metro sexual or anything i'm pretty much just your average Midwest guy and have in no way done anything to suggest id swing that way. So i proceed to tell him that no man im not gay i really don't know why you're telling me this because you know i have a girlfriend and i haven't done anything to suggest i am gay, in fact this is such a stretch i'm honestly uncomfortable that you're going out on a limb this far. I basically then made myself clear that i am straight and am no way interested in full filling his gay fantasy. So he basically tells me that he just goes by a policy if i don't ask then i don't know and how he hopes we can be friends still and doesn't want me to tell anyone form class about it. So at first im like hey whatever guys gay and made a pass i turn him down whatever im not gonna be friends with him (i really never was) but im not gonna tell everyone and am just going to go about my business. As time goes on this guy is still trying to text me and shit and so im ignoring it and this dudes still in my classes and so i cant avoid him and he is even trying to get into my group project im working on this semester.

My question to you all is isn't this damn near sexual harassment? I mean the dude made his pass i said **** off and made myself perfectly clear i didn't want anything to do with that and he is still trying to talk to me and interact with me. If he were a girl and it was the same situation especially since I have a GF it wouldn't it be totally disrespectful and unacceptable? Same thing right?

Does this put an end to that whole "just because a guys gay and you're not doesn't mean he wants to hook up with you." Clearly that's false.

What would you do? I mean i could tell everyone in the class he is gay and made a pass at me and wont leave me alone but what would that accomplish really? I am basically stuck i guess i could go tot he teachers and say im uncomfortable being around this dude cuz he's gay and made a pass at me ext but id rather not make a huge deal about it i just want this dude to leave me alone haha.

Discuss.

[Simply Red]

Just be his friend and go to Macy's together and stuff - pick out cute clothes together.

[Pasta Little Brioni]

Originally Posted by Simply Red

Just be his friend and go to Macy's together and stuff - pick out cute clothes together.

I think he met Clutch Gene

[jspchief]

If this is the way my child communicates after 4 years of college, I'm going to kill someone.

Here's a bit of advice not related to faulty gaydar; the manner in which you communicate makes a strong impression. You may think "lol chiefsplanet who cares", but probably 90% of the people reading your posts are judging you as a moron for the way you post. The fact that you have to "spellcheck" yourself to use "your" and "you're" properly says that you don't know the difference well enough and using them incorrectly just reinforces bad habits.

TL;DR you're a grown up now, type like it.

[Sully]

Originally Posted by arrwheader

No Pablo. I do however think your are a troll of epic proportions. I congratulate you sir.

There should be a comma before "sir" in this sentence.

[KC native]

Originally Posted by jspchief

If this is the way my child communicates after 4 years of college, I'm going to kill someone.

[milkman]

It's becoming more clear with each passing day that "Idocracy" was a foretelling of the near future.

[redfan]

All you need to do is make a little flag out of some masking tape and a toothpick. Since he's a gay dude, you could maybe use one of those little cocktail umbrellas. Use a sharpie and write "I LIKE you -arrwheader" just like that with like in all caps on the cocktail umbrella or tape. Go out to your favorite Mexican restaurant and have yourself a lovely meal. Then take a dump on the hood of his car and put the little flag or cocktail umbrella on the top of the pile like a little cherry on a sundae. I have a friend who has used this technique with great success in a number of overly clingy relationships.

[Mr. Flopnuts]

Originally Posted by Sully

arrwheader,

Have you ever seena grown man naked?

IT'S SO HAIRY!

[Mr. Flopnuts]

Originally Posted by MahiMike

You need to beat the shit out of him immediately. Show him this will not be tolerated.

He's serious so you know. He's not remotely joking.

[cabletech94]

this must be the next chapter of gay day with clay.
amiriteorwhat?

/don't care if que.

[arrwheader]

Originally Posted by jspchief

If this is the way my child communicates after 4 years of college, I'm going to kill someone.

Here's a bit of advice not related to faulty gaydar; the manner in which you communicate makes a strong impression. You may think "lol chiefsplanet who cares", but probably 90% of the people reading your posts are judging you as a moron for the way you post. The fact that you have to "spellcheck" yourself to use "your" and "you're" properly says that you don't know the difference well enough and using them incorrectly just reinforces bad habits.



TL;DR you're a grown up now, type like it.

Well definitely wasn't trying to make a lasting impression on CP. Man you must feel so smart. Huge difference between posting informally on an Internet forum and writing something formal bud. I also seriously doubt that 90 percent of people give a **** like miserable bastards like yourself who like to feel smart about attacking people for grammar and punctuation mistakes on a site like this. But thanks for the lecture and go **** yourself to some hooked on phonics.

[Sorce]

Originally Posted by arrwheader

Well definitely wasn't trying to make a lasting impression on CP. Man you must feel so smart. Huge difference between posting informally on an Internet forum and writing something formal bud. I also seriously doubt that 90 percent of people give a **** like miserable bastards like yourself who like to feel smart about attacking people for grammar and punctuation mistakes on a site like this. But thanks for the lecture and go **** yourself to some hooked on phonics.

This makes my brain cry...

[Hammock Parties]

Originally Posted by cabletech94

this must be the next chapter of gay day with clay.

amiriteorwhat?

Different kind of gay.

[Otter]

Something is telling me that this isn't working out as OP intended.

[Sully]

Originally Posted by arrwheader

Well definitely wasn't trying to make a lasting impression on CP. Man you must feel so smart. Huge difference between posting informally on an Internet forum and writing something formal bud. I also seriously doubt that 90 percent of people give a **** like miserable bastards like yourself who like to feel smart about attacking people for grammar and punctuation mistakes on a site like this. But thanks for the lecture and go **** yourself to some hooked on phonics.

You missed another comma (at least).