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10-31-2014, 09:51 AM | #302 |
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It depends on the cause - you, or her.
In my most recent experience, the things I did at the beginning played a large role in the way she thought of me throughout the relationship. I was young and stupid. Live and learn I guess. |
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10-31-2014, 03:29 PM | #303 | |
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11-04-2014, 12:55 AM | #304 |
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I had been using OKC for just over a year and I had maybe 10 replies to my starting message, 3 of which developed into longer conversations that seemed to trickle off. then just out of the blue one day I get a message from a girl. SHE SENT THE FIRST MESSAGE! I didn't even know this was possible!
We got to talking without wasting any time, the messages were coming in every day. After 3 days of messages I ask her out for coffee. She said she wanted to get to know me better first and she gave me her phone number, the first number I have acquired in my life (now 27 yrs old). Ding! achievement unlocked! We texted back and forth rapidly for about one month, sometimes multiple times a day. She was exactly the kind of person I wanted to date: Kind, Honest, caring, very positive, no games, she even looked pretty good and she had a job and a car. For someone like me who has limited interaction with people due to crippling shyness this was a major step forward. It was so nice having someone to talk to about every little thing. I feel that it really helped me develop my conversation skills. I felt an intense energy boost every day just thinking about her. I could think faster, my workouts were much more intense, it made me feel really confident too. After a month of texting I decided to ask her out again but she decided to break it off. Maybe my timing was bad but I am still learning. She was really nice about it though and didn't leave me hanging. I can't imagine what it will be like to have a real relationship with dating and possibly intimacy too. I now know that its a definite possibility on OKC even for shy guys like me. Don't give up hope guys. Send a thousand messages without replys, spend two hundred hours writing them. That one special lady is waiting just around the corner I just know it!
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11-04-2014, 08:48 AM | #305 |
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So glad I am off those sites. Jfc the bat shit crazy to deal with. Guys like that are hopeless though.
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11-04-2014, 10:10 AM | #307 |
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So glad I'm at a point where dating is a moot point. I don't envy the single folks looking to actively daye.
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8 months today.
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11-04-2014, 10:48 AM | #311 |
Life is changing..
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11-04-2014, 10:50 AM | #312 |
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11-04-2014, 11:03 AM | #313 |
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Online dating is the relationship equivalent to trying to hit a 16 NFL game parlay.
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I don't know why it irks me so much, but can you please learn the difference between 'woman' and 'women'?
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