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Old 04-13-2017, 06:39 PM  
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Why I won’t date hot women anymore

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When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.

“I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper East Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair. “I met some nice people, but realistically I went for the hottest girl you could find.”

He spent the better part of his 30s going on up to three dates a week, courting 20-something blond models, but eventually realized that dating the prettiest young things had its drawbacks — he found them flighty, selfish and vapid.

“Beautiful women who get a fair amount of attention get full of themselves,” he says. “Eventually, I was dreading getting dinner with them because they couldn’t carry a conversation.”

According to new research, Rochkind’s ideas about sexy bikini babes are correct. A multipart study from Harvard University, University of La Verne and Santa Clara University researchers found that beautiful people are more likely to be involved in unstable relationships. In one part, the researchers looked at the top 20 actresses on IMDb and found that they tend to have rocky marriages. In another, women were asked to judge the attractiveness of 238 men based on their high school yearbook photos from 30 years ago. The men who were judged to be the best-looking had higher rates of divorce.

Looking to avoid such a fate, Rochkind started dating a woman who isn’t a bikini model, Carly Spindel, in January 2015. The two are now happily engaged.

The two met after Spindel’s mother, matchmaker Janis Spindel, scouted Rochkind at a gym.

“I gave him my card and said I have the perfect girl for him,” recalls Janis, founder of Serious Matchmaking, based in Midtown. “Successful men who are in shape have the pickings when it comes to dating, [but] eventually they want a woman of substance.”

Rochkind found that in Carly, 30, a lovely brunette who’s the vice president of her mother’s matchmaking company and a Syracuse University graduate. Rochkind proposed to her last May in Central Park. He loves that Carly isn’t like the swimsuit models he used to go for.

“[She] is a softer beauty, someone you can take home and cuddle with, and she’s very elegant,” Rochkind says. “And she’s 5-foot-2, so she can’t be a runway model, but I think she’s really beautiful and is prettier than anyone I’ve dated.”

Carly has no qualms about how her future husband views her compared with his exes.

“When men get to a certain age, they realize that it’s important to meet a life partner that they connect with,” she says. “Looks fade.”

Some great-looking people say they’re given a bad rap unfairly.

“When men see beautiful women, they are more concentrated on how she looks because they want to ‘have’ her, and so they don’t want to go deeper and get to know her,” says Isabell Giardini, a 22-year-old Italian beauty signed with Major Models. “And that’s why at the end of a date they wonder, ‘Oh that girl is so beautiful but so empty.’ That’s happened to me often.”

Others say the stereotypes about pretty people being shallow are true, even if they’re hotties themselves.

“From my personal experience, people who are better looking are less likely to pursue advanced degrees, or play an instrument or learn other languages,” says Benedict Beckeld, a 37-year-old Brooklyn writer with a doctorate in philosophy and the body of an Adonis. But he’s quick to note that he’s not just a great set of abs — he also plays the violin and speaks seven languages.

Rochkind is equally enthusiastic about his decision to give up high-maintenance hotties.

“There’s something to be said about sowing your wild oats and getting them out of your system,” says Rochkind, who will marry Carly in June at a “Tuscan-romantic” ceremony at the Wölffer Estate Vineyard in the Hamptons. But he doesn’t regret his past.

“You don’t want to be the first to leave the party, but you don’t want to leave the party too late either,” he says. “Carly came at exactly the right time.”


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Okay, so we are supposed to believe this guy pictured in the OP spent his 30's banging somewhere between 500 and 1500 "sexy bikini babes"? I'm calling
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Okay, so we are supposed to believe this guy pictured in the OP spent his 30's banging somewhere between 500 and 1500 "sexy bikini babes"? I'm calling
It's possible.

Not likely, but possible.

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If he lowers his standards a bit, I would agree. But nothing but the finest if the fine?!?!
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Old 04-15-2017, 09:27 AM   #103
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You said as much the first time, and it's crap. I have zero game and haven't ever spent $400 for one sexual encounter, then continue spending at a rate of $400 for each one after that.

Ah, so this is what it's about...
Try living in San Fran or DC or Toronto and dating nice looking women then tell me what you think about $400. You go to dinner one night and no sex on the first date, that's $150 minimum. Maybe some drinks the first time you meet that is $50. That's $200 before you get laid. Then you go for another date and maybe something inexpensive and then she decides to move on. You could easily be out $300-400 and need to start all over again.

But I'm sure you and Fish and all the other "studs" here have sex on the first date all the time with 8 and 9's and take them to McDonald's and they pay. Yeah right.

No, I've NEVER been married or have any kids. I have just seen too many friends and associates wind up living in a shitty apartment while their ex-wives are living in a 4,000 sq ft house banging the new boyfriend and the guy can't rub two nickles together because all his money goes to the ex and kids.
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Try living in San Fran or DC or Toronto and dating nice looking women then tell me what you think about $400. You go to dinner one night and no sex on the first date, that's $150 minimum. Maybe some drinks the first time you meet that is $50. That's $200 before you get laid. Then you go for another date and maybe something inexpensive and then she decides to move on. You could easily be out $300-400 and need to start all over again.

But I'm sure you and Fish and all the other "studs" here have sex on the first date all the time with 8 and 9's and take them to McDonald's and they pay. Yeah right.

No, I've NEVER been married or have any kids. I have just seen too many friends and associates wind up living in a shitty apartment while their ex-wives are living in a 4,000 sq ft house banging the new boyfriend and the guy can't rub two nickles together because all his money goes to the ex and kids.
Pretty strange view on dating. Taking a woman on a date isn't just about getting laid, or at least it shouldn't be. Dating should be a way to get to know the other person to decide if you enjoy each other's company enough to see if there is a chance for a relationship. If all you are interested in is getting laid, then yes you should continue to pay for escorts. For you a woman is like going out and buying the ingredients for dinner. You want the best, so you go to the high end butcher to select your piece of meat. You enjoy your meal and you're done with it. That's great for you, but most of the rest of us are looking for something more.

For some of us, our spouses have given us things that are impossible to put a price on. My ROI for my wife has been outstanding.
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