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Old 10-18-2016, 10:27 PM  
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This sucks..Divorce. What is the best Online "D" site to use?

Been married for 24 yrs. 2 kids (18 son and 20 daughter), he is going Ks Nat Guard/KU(Pit St) ROTC route to be an officer, she graduates in 3 yrs, major int'l studies (whatever that is) minor bus minor soc.

Wife is German, met whilst in the Army Frankfurt. Did Desert Storm etc . Left Army as Capt and started my own bus. You look back, the hand writing is on the wall.

To get married, I called the Justice of the Peace in E-town (outside Ft Knox)..what does it take to get married. 30 min, $50. Put me down for 1:00pm next day. Next call was to an attourney...what does it take to get divorced. Uncontested...$200 and 30 min. Done. Married..1992.

She is a firecracker...good and bad. Smart and a Neat Freak. Through the yrs there have been many issues. Won't go into them yet. Asked a client which happens to be a Judge, years ago about keeping the kids (after wife went weirdo and put her hand through a glass window). Judge said no way to get kids???

Years flash forward. Stuff happens...small. We have talked D.

Last couple points. She was away in Germany for a month. She is, as mentioned before, a neat freak. I built a stairway into her loft (major deal), sweep, mop, dust, the whole house...cleaned the toilets. First thing she says when she comes home was "you didn't clean the microwave".

Last night, I asked if we could snuggle for a bit. ( We don't sleep in the same room, I snore) She didn't answer, later went up to her room and she is watching a internet German Soap Opera in bed. I asked which is more important...soap or snuggle. Soap. Last straw.

Thus this post.

So, this type of stuff has happened through years and am done. I have 20 yrs left (aged 52) and don't want to do this anymore...

She doesn't love me, I want to and do...but can't. 2 way street. Thus the D word.

Really don't want it to get nasty, nor her. I found a on-line D site. You fill out the forms and take it to a judge.

Which is the best one?

I wanna have fun my next 20 yrs( sex 3 times thus far this year) , not be bitched at. Kids are gone, thus that issue is mute.

Thoughts?

Sorry, I need to see Jamal have more carries to see if he can carry the rock full time. NOW it is a football thread.

Thanks

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Old 10-19-2016, 08:07 PM   #91
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That's impressive. I always thought something like this seemed possible, but I hadn't heard about anyone pulling it off. Maybe we only tend to hear about the combative divorces and not the easy ones.

And Holladay, sorry to hear about your situation. I hope you can achieve a quick and painless solution.
From what I've heard from most other people that have gotten divorced, I was extremely lucky. My divorce cost me less than $300, involved no attorneys and was completed within 2 months of filing.
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Old 10-19-2016, 10:43 PM   #92
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Sorry to hear this. I think you know from our conversations about business that my approach is to take care of business. Don't half ass stuff especially when it comes to the whole of your assets.

Good luck bud. All the best.

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Old 10-20-2016, 02:59 AM   #93
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Old 10-20-2016, 06:48 AM   #94
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Good one.


Who came up with it? Your tweaker girlfriend or her husband?
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Old 10-20-2016, 08:22 AM   #95
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Lots of interesting opinions in this thread. Some good advice, too. I agree with some who suggest you try to work on the marriage first in most situations. However, that may not be possible in this situation. It sounds like the thread starter has already made up his mind and has one foot out the door. Good luck, bud. I hope this works out well for you.

And Jason, I'm with you, man. I'm very thankful for the good Lord blessing me with my life partner, my wonderful wife.
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Old 10-20-2016, 08:34 AM   #96
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Wow that is amazing smack talk. Did you have to Google that or did you come up with that on your own?
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Old 10-20-2016, 08:41 AM   #97
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I will say this thread has made me thankful for what I have.


Thanks guys.
More than likely, from everything I've seen in life, you had a hand in creating your own good environment. Guys who say "Man, I'm sorry bro, I musta got lucky" almost always tend to be better spouses.
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Old 10-20-2016, 08:53 AM   #98
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Good luck! Hope it works out well for you.

Known folks over the years who have gone through this and still have scars, but they still had small children which makes it worse. Glad yours are, at least, not babies. That will help that part.

Hang in there. Time cures.

(Oh, and I get moot and mute confused at times. Shit happens.)
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When I first read the thread title I thought you were looking for some cock.
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Old 10-20-2016, 12:23 PM   #101
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My second wife would nag about folding clothes. I worked for a uniform company delivering work clothes for a living I didn't want to ****ing fold clothes when I got home from work. Anyways when I did fold clothes it wasn't ever good enough so one day I folded them all into triangles like the American flag. She laughed I laughed good times.

We ended up getting a divorce on line she did most of it didn't hang me out to dry was a clean break and we became good friends sense.
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Old 10-20-2016, 12:23 PM   #102
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When I first read the thread title I thought you were looking for some cock.
I don't think that's been completely ruled out. Just wants to handle the big D before he handles some big D.
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Old 10-20-2016, 12:26 PM   #103
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I don't think that's been completely ruled out. Just wants to handle the big D before he handles some big D.

Then this is a thread for DenverChief to help out & or give advice.



I'm bailing out.

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Old 10-20-2016, 12:39 PM   #104
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I don't think that's been completely ruled out. Just wants to handle the big D before he handles some big D.
I'm headed for the Big D I don't mean Dallas. Or divorce.
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Old 10-20-2016, 12:43 PM   #105
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Why do people get into legal contracts over love with the opposite sex? I don't get it. It just seems like a bad idea. Sure when it works, it works (statiscally low). No further explanation is required. But when marriage doesn't work...oh man...it could wreck the rest of your life.
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