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Old 05-04-2016, 04:48 PM  
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Possibly getting married, what do I need to know about a prenup
No kids, only have cat, but have multiple properties and liquid assets. Plan on filing separately even if get married. What do I need to know?

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Old 05-05-2016, 12:36 AM   #46
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I'd rather not give half of my net worth if we get divorced. Especially since I own many assets and she owns nothing except 5k equity on a 20k car. That is why I have never wanted to get married, I am too scared that everything I've worked so hard for will be for not if it didn't work out. I've heard so many horror stories I just won't do it if I don't get a prenup.

I just want to make sure the prenup is actually valid. I need to ensure that regardless of fault, if marriage broke down I would get EVERYTHING that I own back and not get ****ed.

You should never get married. You clearly love your stuff more than you love her.
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Old 05-05-2016, 01:43 AM   #47
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Old 05-05-2016, 02:15 AM   #48
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Love her daily. Tell her daily. Flirt with her. Fight clean, sex dirty. Go on dates. Open her car door. Make her proud. Listen to her. Lean on her when you must. Buy her some flowers when appropriate. Buy her flowers whenever. Take care of her. Be a great father. Take care of yourself. Acknowledge her. Be her best friend. Be dependable and believe in your relationship.

Do that and a prenup is not necessary. There shouldn't be a reason to split.

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Old 05-05-2016, 02:24 AM   #49
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Love her daily. Tell her daily. Flirt with her. Fight clean, sex dirty. Go on dates. Open her car door. Make her proud. Listen to her. Lean on her when you must. Buy her some flowers when appropriate. Buy her flowers whenever. Take care of her. Be a great father. Take care of yourself. Acknowledge her. Be her best friend. Be dependable and believe in your relationship.

Do that and a prenup is not necessary. There shouldn't be a reason to split.

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....until she ****s the mailman (or a student if she's a teacher) .....because women
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Old 05-05-2016, 02:29 AM   #50
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You should never get married. You clearly love your stuff more than you love her.
Or he's being realistic in realizing half of all marriages end in divorce and wants to protect himself in case that happens in his marriage...
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Old 05-05-2016, 02:36 AM   #51
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....until she ****s the mailman (or a student if she's a teacher) .....because women
With all that and she still cheated? I'd hurt a LOT less about it.
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Old 05-05-2016, 02:39 AM   #52
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With all that and she still cheated? I'd hurt a LOT less about it.
Just be yourself man. No need to force things. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. People aren't meant to be monogamous.
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Old 05-05-2016, 02:49 AM   #53
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Just be yourself man. No need to force things. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. People aren't meant to be monogamous.
I've loved, and lost, a lot. My biggest lesson, keep the one you love. And by keep, I mean don't let her go.

I try to turn my GF on every day in some way. I can't describe how much I love and dig her. And worry not about cheating. Because I give her no reason to and the thought never crosses my mind I assure you.

I came to this after being cheated on. I asked myself 'why would she do that?' But deep down I knew. Things got stale.
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Old 05-05-2016, 05:17 AM   #55
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I'm 32, and don't really want to get into exactly how much assets I have, but she has 150k of student loan debt and very little assets. I have about 160 times more assets than she has, while she has actually more debt than me. Seems like a prenup would be a no brainer.
So go get one.

I wouldn't enter into any kind of agreement committing me making payments without a deal that outlines the terms of those payments. Prenups are fine -- just ring an attorney who has experience in preparing them.
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Old 05-05-2016, 05:26 AM   #56
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2 rules if she is a Millennial
1. Don't get married without a prenup
2. If you do not have a prenup, do not get married

Its that simple. That may even apply if she is not a Millenial, but most 100% definitely if she is.
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Prenuptial agreements aren't worth the paper they're printed on.

I can't speak for every jurisdiction, but this is NOT true.
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I'm 32, and don't really want to get into exactly how much assets I have, but she has 150k of student loan debt and very little assets. I have about 160 times more assets than she has, while she has actually more debt than me. Seems like a prenup would be a no brainer.

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Old 05-05-2016, 08:02 AM   #60
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Sometimes the accumulated wisdom of CP is impressive. Other times, not so much.

So yes, you absolutely SHOULD get a pre-nup. They generally ARE enforceable, but you definitely want to get a good lawyer who specializes in family law and knows the jurisdiction you live in.

That's the legal end. On the more business/practical end, you should have a discussion with her about money and finance. The fact that her family has no money either suggests at least the possibility that she thinks money is there to be spent. If that isn't how you view it (and you clearly don't), then you're going to have problems in the marriage over money. As you may know, money and finance are one of the biggest reasons for divorce.

You should consider a budget system for her, and you, which includes something to help her pay down her debt. If you're thinking that her debt is 100% her problem even after marriage, etc., then likely you shouldn't be getting married. Marriage is nothing if not a partnership, and you can't really say "hey partner, that is 100% your problem, not mine", especially if you want to have kids and she will need to make career sacrifices etc. (which seems likely given your income potential etc.).

Good luck and Congratulations (maybe)!!
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