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Old 10-18-2016, 10:27 PM  
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This sucks..Divorce. What is the best Online "D" site to use?
Been married for 24 yrs. 2 kids (18 son and 20 daughter), he is going Ks Nat Guard/KU(Pit St) ROTC route to be an officer, she graduates in 3 yrs, major int'l studies (whatever that is) minor bus minor soc.

Wife is German, met whilst in the Army Frankfurt. Did Desert Storm etc . Left Army as Capt and started my own bus. You look back, the hand writing is on the wall.

To get married, I called the Justice of the Peace in E-town (outside Ft Knox)..what does it take to get married. 30 min, $50. Put me down for 1:00pm next day. Next call was to an attourney...what does it take to get divorced. Uncontested...$200 and 30 min. Done. Married..1992.

She is a firecracker...good and bad. Smart and a Neat Freak. Through the yrs there have been many issues. Won't go into them yet. Asked a client which happens to be a Judge, years ago about keeping the kids (after wife went weirdo and put her hand through a glass window). Judge said no way to get kids???

Years flash forward. Stuff happens...small. We have talked D.

Last couple points. She was away in Germany for a month. She is, as mentioned before, a neat freak. I built a stairway into her loft (major deal), sweep, mop, dust, the whole house...cleaned the toilets. First thing she says when she comes home was "you didn't clean the microwave".

Last night, I asked if we could snuggle for a bit. ( We don't sleep in the same room, I snore) She didn't answer, later went up to her room and she is watching a internet German Soap Opera in bed. I asked which is more important...soap or snuggle. Soap. Last straw.

Thus this post.

So, this type of stuff has happened through years and am done. I have 20 yrs left (aged 52) and don't want to do this anymore...

She doesn't love me, I want to and do...but can't. 2 way street. Thus the D word.

Really don't want it to get nasty, nor her. I found a on-line D site. You fill out the forms and take it to a judge.

Which is the best one?

I wanna have fun my next 20 yrs( sex 3 times thus far this year) , not be bitched at. Kids are gone, thus that issue is mute.

Thoughts?

Sorry, I need to see Jamal have more carries to see if he can carry the rock full time. NOW it is a football thread.

Thanks
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Old 09-26-2017, 11:47 AM   #151
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If you have no emotional ties to the house and you can get away.. I highly recommend finding yourself a nice Little place suitable for a bachelor. Go out. See shows, be a little messy. Travel. Work out. Sure she was this and that and largely the way you guys broke up was due to her, but you played a role in it too, become a better you. Improve yourself and your mental stability will love you for it
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Old 09-26-2017, 11:47 AM   #152
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Old 09-26-2017, 11:50 AM   #153
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Old 09-26-2017, 11:55 AM   #154
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**** that.

I only had an apartment so that didn't really play a tole
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Old 09-26-2017, 12:09 PM   #155
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Old 09-26-2017, 12:30 PM   #156
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And she will pay for the house.
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If a husband leaves the house, the wife ends up with it 99% of the time.
Good warning.

An even better one is don't take any advice from this message board on momentous moves without running it past your attorney. She starts off with the legal highground by default in a divorce regardless of where the moral high ground lies.
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Old 09-26-2017, 01:08 PM   #158
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Today is our 31st anniversary. This morning I said to her 25 ****ing years. She don't you mean 31 . I said the last 6 years there's been no ****ing.
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Today is our 31st anniversary. This morning I said to her 25 ****ing years. She don't you mean 31 . I said the last 6 years there's been no ****ing.
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**** 'hanging on' for anything - that's all HER PROBLEM! You sound like your own worst enemy.
This, dude. I've been through divorce and if you allow it, she will "hang on" in perpetuity and still manage to suck the life out of you. Make as clean a break as you can.
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Not a given. Kids are grown, correct? She is employed and has been for a long period of time. What is the need for financial support?
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How do you guys let yourself get into a sexless marriage. Set clear boundaries and let it be known that's not something you'll accept- ever.
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How do you guys let yourself get into a sexless marriage. Set clear boundaries and let it be known that's not something you'll accept- ever.


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