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MTG#10 · 03-21-2010, 08:05 AM

I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.

MTG#10 · 03-21-2010, 11:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Katipan

thought you were selling your stuff to pay for a lawyer?

i think you deserve her.
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I did...I had to use that money for a bankruptcy lawyer.

**Iowanian** · 03-21-2010, 11:35 AM

I remember before this went down that you had a spell of calling me a drama queen....

holy shit.

You led people here to believe they were buying your shit to help you with a divorce....and that's not what you did.

Reach down and punch yourself where your balls used to be.

Mile High Mania · 03-21-2010, 11:35 AM

You are in a never ending cycle of crap... you had an opportunity to take more control of your situation and improve your life, but you didn't take it. It's nearly a year later and you're no more happier than you were when all of this crap first happened.

Unless I missed it, you're still married to her... there's now 4 kids (right?) and 2 baby daddies in the mix with one mom.

The definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over while expecting a different result. You have sought out advice in the past, but you've taken your own road... are you in a better place than you were in April 2009?

If not, make changes... if you can't make changes, then buckle up because this hellish emotional roller coaster isn't going to end any time soon. And, if you think your kids are innocent bystanders with no clue as to what is happening, I think you should really take a close look and evaluate the situation.

Nobody here knows anything more than what you've posted... and I think it's hard for many to fathom the idea that all is great in their world right now. It doesn't appear to be great for you or your wife... how could it be any different for them?

Cntrygal · 03-21-2010, 11:35 AM

So... your CURRENT wife is sleeping with another guy - all night and just had his kid. But, really, she loves you. After all, you're good for a quickie **** in the afternoon when the kids aren't home and her lover is at work... or does he sit in the driveway and wait until she's done?

And you think you don't need counseling?

Katipan · 03-21-2010, 11:37 AM

id hate to see a decent woman wasted on you. maybe youll grow up someday. some people never do. in either case keep your dick in that nasty holster. the rest of the world can breathe easier knowing the pair of you are occupied.
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Sully · 03-21-2010, 11:37 AM

Getting laid, going out with other girls... Even falling in love, has NOTHING to do with getting over someone.

You have no clue of yourself, your qualities, and ultimately your worth right now. That is what's going to be passed onto your kids more than anything. It sends the message that self worth is tied intowho you are with every bit as much as the single mom
who hops from guy to guy. I don't give a rip how young your kids are, and how much you think you are hiding, they are learning that lesson already.

If I knew you in person, I'd want to beat some sense intoyou, but ultimately all I can do is pray for you, and more importantly, your kids.

Find yourself. Often to do that, one needs to be by himself.

Mile High Mania · 03-21-2010, 11:38 AM

http://www.jerryspringertv.com/be_a_guest.php

Seriously, check into ... maybe you can make a few dollars that you can put to good use.

Mile High Mania · 03-21-2010, 11:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sully

Getting laid, going out with other girls... Even falling in love, has NOTHING to do with getting over someone.

You have no clue of yourself, your qualities, and ultimately your worth right now. That is what's going to be passed onto your kids more than anything. It sends the message that self worth is tied intowho you are with every bit as much as the single mom
who hops from guy to guy. I don't give a rip how young your kids are, and how much you think you are hiding, they are learning that lesson already.

If I knew you in person, I'd want to beat some sense intoyou, but ultimately all I can do is pray for you, and more importantly, your kids.

Find yourself. Often to do that, one needs to be by himself.

Sounds very familiar to comments from several of us 10 months ago...

**Bane** · 03-21-2010, 11:40 AM

Have a 3 some and web cast it.Sharing creampies is the new money shot in porn!

**Iowanian** · 03-21-2010, 11:41 AM

and bring another friend, I'll bet she's a 3 car garage.

Sully · 03-21-2010, 11:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mile High Mania

Sounds very familiar to comments from several of us 10 months ago...

Sadly, there were just as many people telling him to **** it out of his system.

Also, as evidenced by his comments even on here, he's still more than willing to make every excuse possible to continue not doing the right thing. He's his own worst enabler.

Cntrygal · 03-21-2010, 11:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Katipan

id hate to see a decent woman wasted on you. maybe youll grow up someday. some people never do. in either case keep your dick in that nasty holster. the rest of the world can breathe easier knowing the pair of you are occupied.
Posted via Mobile Device

Good Point!!!

Mile High Mania · 03-21-2010, 11:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sully

Sadly, there were just as many people telling him to **** it out of his system.

Also, as evidenced by his comments even on here, he's still more than willing to make every excuse possible to continue not doing the right thing. He's his own worst enabler.

Yeah, there's still hope for him though... but, he has to do it for himself and unfortunately there doesn't appear to be anyone within his circle of friends or family willing to take the initiative to push him in the right direction.

Rudy tossed tigger's salad · 03-21-2010, 11:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jilly

It takes a lot for me to throw my compassion out of the window, but you're just making the decision to ruin yourself over and over and over again.....seriously, stop. Have some integrity and enough self respect to stop.

THIS.

Wait. We're talking about his thread-making, right?

ChiefsOne · 03-21-2010, 11:52 AM

After reading through this entire thread and remembering when he was telling the break up story last year, I call bullshit!

He is an attention whore and writing an internet farce. Seriously there is no person in the world this f'n dumb.

03-21-2010, 08:05 AM
MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7384386	My ex had her baby last night... I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.
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03-21-2010, 11:35 AM	#122
Iowanian Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia Casino cash: $4568454	I remember before this went down that you had a spell of calling me a drama queen.... holy shit. You led people here to believe they were buying your shit to help you with a divorce....and that's not what you did. Reach down and punch yourself where your balls used to be.
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03-21-2010, 11:35 AM	#123
Mile High Mania #triggering Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Tejas Casino cash: $3267229	You are in a never ending cycle of crap... you had an opportunity to take more control of your situation and improve your life, but you didn't take it. It's nearly a year later and you're no more happier than you were when all of this crap first happened. Unless I missed it, you're still married to her... there's now 4 kids (right?) and 2 baby daddies in the mix with one mom. The definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over while expecting a different result. You have sought out advice in the past, but you've taken your own road... are you in a better place than you were in April 2009? If not, make changes... if you can't make changes, then buckle up because this hellish emotional roller coaster isn't going to end any time soon. And, if you think your kids are innocent bystanders with no clue as to what is happening, I think you should really take a close look and evaluate the situation. Nobody here knows anything more than what you've posted... and I think it's hard for many to fathom the idea that all is great in their world right now. It doesn't appear to be great for you or your wife... how could it be any different for them? __________________
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03-21-2010, 11:35 AM	#124
Cntrygal Brrrrr..... Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: USA!!! :) Casino cash: $9954930	So... your CURRENT wife is sleeping with another guy - all night and just had his kid. But, really, she loves you. After all, you're good for a quickie **** in the afternoon when the kids aren't home and her lover is at work... or does he sit in the driveway and wait until she's done? And you think you don't need counseling?
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03-21-2010, 11:37 AM	#125
Katipan MER Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Colorado Casino cash: $2330351	id hate to see a decent woman wasted on you. maybe youll grow up someday. some people never do. in either case keep your dick in that nasty holster. the rest of the world can breathe easier knowing the pair of you are occupied. Posted via Mobile Device
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03-21-2010, 11:37 AM	#126
Sully It Goes On Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Lees Summit Casino cash: $10026331	Getting laid, going out with other girls... Even falling in love, has NOTHING to do with getting over someone. You have no clue of yourself, your qualities, and ultimately your worth right now. That is what's going to be passed onto your kids more than anything. It sends the message that self worth is tied intowho you are with every bit as much as the single mom who hops from guy to guy. I don't give a rip how young your kids are, and how much you think you are hiding, they are learning that lesson already. If I knew you in person, I'd want to beat some sense intoyou, but ultimately all I can do is pray for you, and more importantly, your kids. Find yourself. Often to do that, one needs to be by himself. __________________ "And I don't wish that girl any bad luck," he said, "but I hope she gets hit with a car." - Tommy Lasorda
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03-21-2010, 11:38 AM	#127
Mile High Mania #triggering Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Tejas Casino cash: $3267229	http://www.jerryspringertv.com/be_a_guest.php Seriously, check into ... maybe you can make a few dollars that you can put to good use. __________________
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03-21-2010, 11:40 AM	#129
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03-21-2010, 11:41 AM	#130
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03-21-2010, 11:52 AM	#135
ChiefsOne Veteran Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Springfield, MO Casino cash: $6418192	After reading through this entire thread and remembering when he was telling the break up story last year, I call bullshit! He is an attention whore and writing an internet farce. Seriously there is no person in the world this f'n dumb.
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