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10-27-2014, 02:30 PM | #61 |
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You don't think you were having a panic attack last night?
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10-27-2014, 02:40 PM | #62 |
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The only reason I ask....
That sound a lot like what happens to me when I have a panic attack. I get sweaty, my body feels waek, there's an overwhelming sense of "I'm dying". My vision gets all out of wack. It's an absolutely terrible feeling. |
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10-27-2014, 02:47 PM | #63 |
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**** meds,... find a hobby... something you LOVE to do. Put a lot of passion into it, and the person who you are looking for will find their way to you.
I use music as my medicine. |
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10-27-2014, 02:54 PM | #64 |
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Train for 1 hour every day and watch those blues go away. Just google workouts and depression. It's the single best thing you can do. Don't get on meds.
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10-27-2014, 02:56 PM | #65 |
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I was on venlafaxine, alprazolam, and limotrogine for years. Had to get off of them because I was out of a job and couldn't afford it. Holy shit, it was like coming off of heroin or something. For a good 3 weeks. Horrible. I've since seen a counselor and confided in family members who didnt know about my struggles. For the first time in as long as I can remember, I feel "normal". Still hard, but found coping mechanisms and exercises to seal with the anxiety and depression. My wife notices a huge difference. Its hard without the medicine at times, but more often than not I can deal with things better. I'll never take medication again as long as I can help it. My pm box is open if you need to chat (or anyone else for that matter). I've dealt with this for better part of my adult life (37yrs old).
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10-27-2014, 02:59 PM | #66 |
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Simply Red, you're an awesomely nice guy. Don't be too nice and that does not mean be an ass. And don't try too hard, women can sense that.
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10-27-2014, 03:02 PM | #68 |
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Yep. ****ing horrible. Worst shit I've ever experienced.
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10-27-2014, 03:03 PM | #69 |
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I appreciate you guys. I really do.
I'll be okay - I'm going to start tomorrow - by going to Sam to meet for the start of my recovery - & let me say - it's not always bad, but lately it's been really bad, and there's more to the story that i just can't disclose to you all right now. Thank you again. |
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10-27-2014, 03:05 PM | #71 |
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Exercise an diet can go a long way in helping most depression. No shame in taking medications. Wish I could but everything they've tried on me causes terrible side effects. I've had mild to moderate depression and general anxiety disorder for over five years. From reading this thread there are a lot of us that suffer from some form of mental illness. Pyscho-therapy is a must and if you can take them, medications can help a lot. Don't give up.
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10-27-2014, 03:14 PM | #72 |
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The event you described in the OP is most likely a panic attack. If I had to guess, the intense emotions, sweating, and feeling of death lasted about 10 minutes with high intensity, with the whole event possibly going longer? You may not be aware of how long it was, but that is normal.
I don't say this to minimize your feelings of depression either. Panic attacks are significantly comorbid (existing simultaneously) with depression. Obviously the relationship between the emotions you are feeling and describing is quite complicated which is why there is almost never one specific trigger or cause for a panic attack, but is instead a combination of things. If you experience this again try your best to understand your thoughts and/or surroundings leading to the event. This will help you learn your triggers. Also, a really effective treatment that you can do for yourself is to place a wet wash clothe on your forehead and the back of your neck. This helps with the physiological responses that are so stressful such as the sweating, racing heart, and shortness of breath. In turn this will minimize the length of the attack. |
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10-27-2014, 03:50 PM | #74 |
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SR, sorry to hear that things are going rough right now. Have you tried a "life coach"? I had a guy that I went to see that helped me with some coping issues back in the day. I was always stressed out, and I was having anxiety because of it. Just talking about coping methods, discussing my stressors, etc., really helped me out.
I want to second a post on the first page of this thread. Finding someone to spend time with to bring some sense of normalcy to your life is not the answer. It's not fair to them, and it isn't confronting the real issue. It's like rebound relationships. They make you feel pretty good for a month or so, and then you realize that it's not THE person that is making you feel better, but just the fact that you are with A person. You need to get to the root of why you are depressed. Is it chemical? Is there something missing in your self confidence and self esteem, and if so, why? You have to start with you first. Once the feeling of needing someone around in order to feel a sense of "normal" in your life is gone, then, and only then, can you really make an attempt to find a person to share your life with. Anything before that, and essentially, you are using them. I wish you all the best. Life is generally a bitch. However, there is also so much good in life. You just have to find it. What hobbies do you have? What are your passions? |
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10-27-2014, 03:51 PM | #75 |
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Best wishes SR.
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