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10-19-2016, 12:03 PM | #61 |
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sorry dude, it will get better
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10-19-2016, 12:05 PM | #62 | |
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In my rough times, I step back and kick up the effort and the payout return from my wife is great. Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of good reasons to get divorced, and not being in love is #1 on the list. |
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10-19-2016, 12:11 PM | #63 | |
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10-19-2016, 12:14 PM | #64 |
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You're both wrong. #1 cause for divorce is marriage.
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10-19-2016, 12:14 PM | #65 |
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Above all, divorce with and without kids is totally different and should be treated as such. That said:
What does "being in love" even mean? Honestly: marriage is a partnership. A financial and legal partnership above all else. Normally to raise productive children. Being "in love" is way down the list no? There are 4 good reasons to divorce, the 4 "A's": Adultery, Abandonment, Abuse, Addictions. Not being in love seems to be flimsy to me. |
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10-19-2016, 12:26 PM | #66 |
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If she had assets before the marriage or brought assets into the marriage through inheritance and they aren't co-mingled... they may not be subject to a 50/50 split.
Likewise if you brought assets into the marriage or inherited assets, and did NOT co mingle them with her...then they could be protected. Any assets you co mingled or acquired together would be at risk. I think you need to talk to a lawyer if you have serious assets that are co mingled or acquired together and/ or if her assets in Germany were inherited or brought into the marriage solely by her and not using Co mingled funds... You may not have as much leverage as you think you do...so discuss this with a lawyer before making assumptions.
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10-19-2016, 12:28 PM | #67 |
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Also the leverage from her German assets could be meaningless if you can't get a German court to issue a writ of possession or whatever they have over there...and complete a legal process there to get a judgment, writ, and collect on it.
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10-19-2016, 12:52 PM | #68 |
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You should probably just have her killed at this point. I may know a guy.
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10-19-2016, 01:02 PM | #69 |
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I'm an attorney, and I do divorces on the side (it's not my main practice area). I can tell you that you may not have to pay as much as you think for decent help. A lot of people just assume it's going to be thousands of dollars, but depending on the specifics of your case you can actually get an uncontested divorce for a reasonable price if you do some digging and call around.
This is not in any way a solicitation, and I'm not in any way suggesting that you hire me, as I know nothing about your case aside from what you posted. I'm just saying check around and you may find a lawyer who can help for just a couple hundred bucks more than what you would pay for forms. *shrug* It's worth spending a couple hours working the phones to see what kind of prices you can get, anyways.
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10-19-2016, 01:05 PM | #70 |
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You all are a GREAT help. Bases upon your comments, I will seek an attorney. The german assets and my business will create some problems. I don't mind helping out, just not bent over.
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[QUOTE With any luck, she goes back to Germany and you keep the house.][/QUOTE] This is the end game. At some point in time, soon, she will need to go back to take care of her parents. We are working with her job (virtual travel agent) so she can work over there. I told her when this happens, we will need to divorce. I do not and can not live in Germany unless I sell my business. She makes OK money (vastly under paid in my view) and has nice health benefits, which I don't. If I pay all the bills, and she is in Germany, she will be fine. Again, will seek an attorney and thanks again. |
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10-19-2016, 04:22 PM | #73 |
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Separate bedrooms should have told you everything you need to know
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I don't need a partnership. It's not a business. But she happens to be my business partner also. We are in the same place over 90% of the time I would say. If I didn't love her she probably wouldn't be alive, . Not serious, but maybe lol |
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Separate bedrooms used to be quite normal. It could be an indicator of problems or simply 2 people who have a sleeping arrangement so they both can get a good night's rest. He already said he has snoring problems. If the other person is a light sleeper, and most nights is disturbed and woken up, do you think that might not result in them being more cranky if they are woken up night after night?
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