Life Best friend from back in the day just got out of the pen... - Page 4

MTG#10 · 07-30-2014, 04:59 PM

This guy is probably the best friend I ever had, he would have given his life for me when we were young and helped me out of many poor decisions. Every fond memory of my childhood and teenage years up until 22 involved him in some way. Then he got locked up for multiple felonies, and I got married/started a family.

We kept in touch for several years, I'd often write and occasionally visit him, then he started getting in trouble in prison and went to the hole several times and lost pretty much all of his privileges. After awhile we lost touch...partially because he wasn't allowed to communicate with anyone other than immediate family, and partially because I moved on with my life.

Couple weeks ago he finds me on FB and told me he was free and wanted to kick it. I cautiously accepted and invited him over for some ribs this last weekend.

So we had a few beers and lots of laughs reminiscing over all the dumb shit we used to do as teens and all the road trips we went on. After awhile it started getting really hot outside and he took his shirt off...to my surprise the guy was covered in white supremacy/Neo-Nazi tattoos. At first he claimed he had to get them to survive in there, claimed he didn't really believe all that shit but it was either join the "SSG" and be protected, or take his chances getting his ass beaten/raped by blacks and whites.

But the more and more we talked it became quite obvious this is probably the most racist guys Ive ever known. I let it be known quick that I dont believe all that bullshit and didn't want to hear about it and he acted like he understood, but the more beers he got in him the more foul he became.

I'm trying not to judge him, I don't know what he went through in there but I cant be friends with someone like that. I feel bad because he's been calling and texting since and I havent replied...don't really know how to handle a situation like this. Ive already told him my views but I know he's not going to change his.

/MTG thread

Pablo · 07-30-2014, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by KCUnited

I know when I'm cautious about a guy getting released from prison, I have him over to my house.

MTG decisions are the best decisions.

milkman · 07-30-2014, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by teedubya

You become who you hang around. Ditch this fool.

Wait....

You become who you hang around, and you are what you eat, then I'm my wife?

**Easy 6** · 07-30-2014, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by KCUnited

I know when I'm cautious about a guy getting released from prison, I have him over to my house.

Uh, yeah.

**Bwana** · 07-30-2014, 06:52 PM

You need new friends.

**TimBone** · 07-30-2014, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Easy 6

Uh, yeah.

What's the skinny on the name change, bud?

ping2000 · 07-30-2014, 06:53 PM

Move, or buy a gun and a good security system. And antifreeze.

**Easy 6** · 07-30-2014, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Flybone McTimmerson

What's the skinny on the name change, bud?

Just tired of the same old same old... the tweet someone posted in the camp thread about Bray to Jenkins on a go for an Easy 6 gave me the answer.

In58men · 07-30-2014, 06:58 PM

Before you make a rash a decision just hit him up and tell him when he's sober. Let him know if he gets rowdy when he drinks that it's done. Hanging out a few times (sober) could save your friendship, if you even care to have one with him.

**TimBone** · 07-30-2014, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Easy 6

Just tired of the same old same old... the tweet someone posted in the camp thread about Bray to Jenkins on a go for an Easy 6 gave me the answer.

I like it!

**srvy** · 07-30-2014, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Easy 6

Just tired of the same old same old... the tweet someone posted in the camp thread about Bray to Jenkins on a go for an Easy 6 gave me the answer.

Huh I missed that. Some of you change names around here like people change undershorts after a meal of Taco bell.

kcxiv · 07-30-2014, 07:03 PM

well when you go to prison for a while and its all about race inside, im sure one would get a little if not alot racist! The system!

ThaVirus · 07-30-2014, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by PackerinMo

You have to realize that he was your friend from a different time in your life. I faced this same problem once, ran into a childhood friend that had moved to Nevada for 10 years, came back to Missouri and said he wanted to hang, the first day he tried to fight one of my current friends, I was so embarrassed, you have to cut him loose.

I never bring friends from different groups around each other if I'm the only thing that's tying the two together. This is the reason why..

kcxiv · 07-30-2014, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

That's what I was thinking and why Im trying not to judge him. At the same time though, lots of white guys go to prison and dont come out racist...

This all depends on who he clicked up with inside and what kind of brainwashing they did and who tried to kick his ass and what not. If your Race A and Race B keeps ****ing with you inside, you will hate Race B. So, every single day you worry about Race B trying to **** you up, yeah i can easily see how one can become racist!

Prison is no joke i have known quite a few people that been in and out and the stories I hear are insane. Its just a whole different set of rules then us Civilians live.

kcxiv · 07-30-2014, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus

I never bring friends from different groups around each other if I'm the only thing that's tying the two together. This is the reason why..

I did this as a teenager and into my early to mid 20's. I had my gangster/thug homies i grew up with, then i had this other friend and his buddies that were not into gang stuff whatsoever and i would never mix the 2. Lets just say when i wasnt with my "good friends" i was doing bad stuff. Its like i lived a different life at times! I just kept the shit separate!

So, yeah, i can totally get what your saying

Valiant · 07-30-2014, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by NewChief

Find a photo of a hot black woman. Show him picture and tell him it's your girlfriend. That should solve your issue if he doesn't shank you for race mixing.

Guy has not been in prison that long to believe that myth..

07-30-2014, 04:59 PM
MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7424386	Best friend from back in the day just got out of the pen... This guy is probably the best friend I ever had, he would have given his life for me when we were young and helped me out of many poor decisions. Every fond memory of my childhood and teenage years up until 22 involved him in some way. Then he got locked up for multiple felonies, and I got married/started a family. We kept in touch for several years, I'd often write and occasionally visit him, then he started getting in trouble in prison and went to the hole several times and lost pretty much all of his privileges. After awhile we lost touch...partially because he wasn't allowed to communicate with anyone other than immediate family, and partially because I moved on with my life. Couple weeks ago he finds me on FB and told me he was free and wanted to kick it. I cautiously accepted and invited him over for some ribs this last weekend. So we had a few beers and lots of laughs reminiscing over all the dumb shit we used to do as teens and all the road trips we went on. After awhile it started getting really hot outside and he took his shirt off...to my surprise the guy was covered in white supremacy/Neo-Nazi tattoos. At first he claimed he had to get them to survive in there, claimed he didn't really believe all that shit but it was either join the "SSG" and be protected, or take his chances getting his ass beaten/raped by blacks and whites. But the more and more we talked it became quite obvious this is probably the most racist guys Ive ever known. I let it be known quick that I dont believe all that bullshit and didn't want to hear about it and he acted like he understood, but the more beers he got in him the more foul he became. I'm trying not to judge him, I don't know what he went through in there but I cant be friends with someone like that. I feel bad because he's been calling and texting since and I havent replied...don't really know how to handle a situation like this. Ive already told him my views but I know he's not going to change his. /MTG thread
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kcxiv In Search of a Life Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Central Valley, Cali Casino cash: $8807996	well when you go to prison for a while and its all about race inside, im sure one would get a little if not alot racist! The system!
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