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12-29-2012, 08:54 PM | #46 |
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There are only 2 situations in which it's not "Bros before Hoes" with me.
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12-29-2012, 08:59 PM | #47 | |
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12-29-2012, 09:13 PM | #48 |
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12-29-2012, 09:15 PM | #49 |
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here is the thing with that saying, if its a close friend and you are really good friends, then staying out of it means your just a shitty friend, but if the people involved are shady with relationships all the way around, then it doesn't ****ing matter.
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12-29-2012, 09:17 PM | #50 | |
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It isn't your business and you should distance yourself from it as much as possible else become an accessory to the fact. Unless the person is a complete moron, they'll figure out that their spouse is having an affair on their own. It's actually pretty ****ing easy to see once you get past the "She/He wouldn't do that to me!" stage. |
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12-29-2012, 09:17 PM | #51 |
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If it's a one night stand, move on, nothing to see here. If it's more than that, still move on, it's deeper than that and you don't need to be part of a deeper problem.
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12-29-2012, 09:20 PM | #52 |
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Unless he's having an affair with YOUR wife, stay out of it.
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12-29-2012, 09:20 PM | #53 |
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I call bullshit. A real friend would sniff that shit out before the relationship became serious.
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12-29-2012, 09:30 PM | #54 |
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Too many variables to answer but probably no then yes. Depends on loyalty and two million other factors.
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12-29-2012, 09:49 PM | #55 |
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No but it would probably shaken my friendship with him and I would advise him to think about the big picture damage is he doing to himself, his wife & God. Question 2: Yes. My loyalty is with my friend. It might not make perfect sense given it's no for one and yes for the other but I've never claimed to be a perfect person. I just call it as I see it folks. |
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12-29-2012, 09:59 PM | #56 |
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so what happened to the OP?
nothing back since then?
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12-29-2012, 10:06 PM | #57 |
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12-29-2012, 10:37 PM | #58 |
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Would I tell the spouse, probably not. But I wouldn't do anything to cover for the friend either. I might tell my wife and let her go do the dirty work.
As far as my friend's spouse having an affair, I assume he would already have some suspicion, so I might try to confirm his suspicion without spelling it out for him. If I found out that my friend's spouse was having an affair because I woke up next to her in a cheap motel room, I would not say anything to my friend.
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12-29-2012, 11:21 PM | #59 |
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Are you people serious? One of your boys cheats and you get bent out of shape over it. Just keep your mouf shut and go on w your life. Telling a friends spouse or sig other they cheated on them is the lowest thing a friend can do. If you find out she's cheating on him that's a totally different story. Be loyal to your friends. FFS why are you even asking this question about what you should do. Do you not understand bro code?
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12-30-2012, 01:07 AM | #60 |
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Situation 1 (I consider the cheater a friend but do not consider the victim a friend) I would no longer be friends with the cheater. I would not go out of my way to tell the victim, but I wouldn't go out of my way to conceal it, either.
Situation 2 (I consider the victim a friend but I do not consider the cheater a friend) Of course I would tell the victim (my friend) what I knew. |
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