Psycho ex-stories - Page 25

mike_b_284 · 01-17-2006, 11:49 AM

I just broke up with my girlfriend this weekend and she isn't taking very well. And by well I mean with a shred of effing sanity. Some crazy shit has been going down. I think she might start stalking me. She came by to get the last of her stuff from my apartment. I went to my room to check to make sure she had everything, when I came out her and my mp3 player were gone. I went to ask for it back and she kept denying it. I wrote it off and left, happy never to talk to her again. I went and played video games at my friend's for a couple hours, then went to quiktrip for some food. While I am eating my hot dog in the parking lot, I look over and there she is. Keep in mind this is twenty minutes from where I live and from where she lives. This means she was driving around for at least forty minutes looking for me. She gets in my car and starts sobbing, telling me she can't sleep and all she can do is cry. I ask for my stuff back and she says no. I tell her to get out of my car and she says no. Finally a cop walks up and asks if everything is okay, before I can tell him to remove the bitch from my car she gets out. She called well over 20 times since then and I am starting to get a little nervous.

How about your craziest ex's? rep to the worst

Simplex3 · 01-17-2006, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Mer

I fail to see why you'd give a shit if a girl needed to take a breather in your bathroom.

I further fail to see why any guy would date a girl that he had to worry about in that manner.

Even worse, I fail to see why he had to have his socks back.

He's just a snot.

I'm with the "get the f**k out of my house" crowd on this one. I've had things stolen from me during break ups. If the dude had medication in there the last thing you need is this bitch dumping $100 worth of prescriptions in the tiolet and then you having to explain to the doc why you need more.

HOWEVER, he could have avoided the whole thing by not pushing to send her home.

By the way, the reason she was pissed can be broken down quite simply with a short timeline:

1. You ask for sex
2. She says "can't"
3. You say "I'm not in a good mood, I'll take you home"

End of story.

**Nzoner** · 01-17-2006, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc

This thread got good in the middle, but has really starting dragging the last 10 pages or so. Pick it up, people.

Craziest I ever encountered was a girl moving in with me that wasn't invited.

I met her at a restaurant after the bars had closed,she followed me to my place,I woke up late for work the next morning and I told her to let herself out.Got home that evening and she had moved some stuff in and had dinner on the stove.

I kept my cool and explained that I had plans that night and she was not part of them and that I was not looking for a roomate.Although she started crying she helped me pack her car without a huge scene.

She called me for about a month and even got me tickets for a concert I was wanting to go to.Never heard from her again and figured she had met some other unsuspecting guy.

Lesson learned though as I never let another girl stay at my place without me there.

Simplex3 · 01-17-2006, 11:15 PM

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Originally Posted by raiderhader

I fully realize all of that, but that makes it no less frustrating. Especially when we have to accept that and the women do not, as is evidenced by the fact that most of the guys here seem to be, at least partially, understanding the women's POV, and not one female has so much as attempted to see where the guy was coming from.

If it's supposed to be about working together and compromise from BOTH sides, I'm not seeing it in this thread. And that, simply put, is bullshit. I'm willing to meet in the middle, key word, "middle".

I married my wife because of this. She started some bulls**t fight using one of those traps they lay for men just to get you to start a fight while we were still dating. I was at her place, so getting out was no problem. We were eating when she started the fight, then she storms upstairs to the bedroom and slam the door. I'm sitting there calmly finishing my food and watching some tube, getting ready to take off when she came back down and appologized. I was so stunned I couldn't swallow the food I'd just put in my mouth.

There ARE non-psychos out there, you just have to look. And when you do find one, you have to be willing to comprimise on some things.

**Nzoner** · 01-17-2006, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Simplex3

I'm sitting there calmly finishing my food and watching some tube, getting ready to take off when she came back down and appologized. I was so stunned I couldn't swallow the food I'd just put in my mouth.

Yep,you found a keeper.

Simplex3 · 01-17-2006, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Mer

The boy wanted his socks back out of SPITE.

He wanted her out of his ice cream out of SPITE.

He wanted her out of his bathroom out of SPITE.

He wanted his socks back because he loved them, not her.

He wanted her out of the ice cream because he loved it the way it was, not the way she was making it.

He wanted her out of his bathroom because he was scared.

Simplex3 · 01-17-2006, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated

no pride, self-esteem, common sense, or testicles.

pie is all donger has left.

especially since his wife is fucking other guys and talking shit on that p^ssy she's married to.

Not pissing off your wife does not equal being a pu**y. If the bitch cheats on you believe me, it has nothing to do with any of the following:

1. How well you laid the pipe
2. If you were mean enough to her
3. If you showed enough testosterone

It has everything to do with the fact that one or both of you were not mature enough to be in a relationship. You can thank your parents for that.

Simplex3 · 01-17-2006, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by leviw

There's an off chance that some got up along the side of the tub. Haven't inspected it that closely, to tell you the truth.

You could always try, oh, I don't know, CLEANING IT?!?!

**CosmicPal** · 01-17-2006, 11:35 PM

My ex's were usually pretty happy when it was all over with. I've never had a real bad break-up- they were all mostly mutual. I really didn't care, quite honestly.

I did have one gal who called me one night after we'd been dating for a couple of months and said that she loved me. I really liked her at the time, but I couldn't reply with the "I love you" back.

The next day, I called her house and her father answered. I felt bad and wanted to tell her I wanted to continue seeing her and to give me some time, but her father proceeded to tell me she left that morning to stay with her mom in Virginia! Needless to say, he knew why she wanted to leave KC and he was pissed at me. I apologized and tried to tell him that I really liked her, but I just didn't know if I loved her yet. It was all weird and I figured if she was so quick to leave like that, she wouldn't be someone I'd want to be around. So, I just let it be.

A few years later, I'm in a bar in OPKS with some friends and she's there at the bar. I thought about it, and after awhile decided to go up to her and apologize. The bar was crowded and as I walked toward the bar I see her get up and go to the Ladies room. So, I walk over to the Ladies room and wait. A few minutes go by and chicks come in and out of the bathroom, but Becky never does come out. I begin to ask gals if they've seen her in there and nobody knows what I'm talking about. So, I decided to go in, and of course as soon as I do- a couple of gals start screaming so I walk back out again.

She never did come out. I don't know what happened to her. And that was the last I ever saw of her....

**cdcox** · 01-18-2006, 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by CosmicPal

My ex's were usually pretty happy when it was all over with. I've never had a real bad break-up- they were all mostly mutual. I really didn't care, quite honestly.

I'd hate to see what you'd call a bad break up if this didn't qualify (Hall of Classics nominee):

http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showthread.php?t=110129

**Baby Lee** · 01-18-2006, 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by raiderhader

There is two sides to every coin, and on the flip side of said coin, who can blame us for wanting a little up front proof of our own that they are willing to be reasonable? Because I am not seeing reason in this discussion. I am seeing justification for everything the woman did, I am seeing the guy being called names because he asked for the return of his property, I am seeing his words being blown out of proportion and/or twisted to come across differently than what he initially posted, I am seeing him made out to be a full blown prick because he was having a bad night.

It's redamndiculous.

This isn't English court. He's the one making the case she's psycho. His characterization of events doesn't meet muster.
She's set up for a night of snuggling and chilling out, and he lays into her over his perception of her piggish eating habits [never a winning rejoinder].
Sure she wigged out. And sure he was in a bad mood. But his bad mood wasn't a force of nature. It was on him to keep his bad mood under control and refrain from letting it turn him into an insulting ass.
And a heated argument is not the time to delve into the common law origins of sock property rights with someone you're supposed to have romantic feelings for.
Bottom line, he was being an insulting ass when she was expecting tenderness and intimacy, and she overreacted. And all on the planet were entertained.

**ptlyon** · 01-18-2006, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by CosmicPal

She never did come out. I don't know what happened to her. And that was the last I ever saw of her....

Wow - wish I had that effect on some women.

MOhillbilly · 01-18-2006, 08:53 AM

who cares theyre all crazy.

Seek · 01-18-2006, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by DJay23

Thanks buddy.

Feels good to be free though. Sorry yours won't give up though, that's rough.

I don't get it, you guys didn't even date but a month and a half, and you already bought here jewlery and other stuff, and you already had numerous fights. GEEZ. You guys should still be in the new love phase, but you guys went straight to the pre-divorce stage in less that a month.

**CosmicPal** · 01-18-2006, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by cdcox

I'd hate to see what you'd call a bad break up if this didn't qualify (Hall of Classics nominee):

http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showthread.php?t=110129

Ha ha. I actually forgot about her. I know I mentioned her as a "girlfriend" in the title, but I never really considered her a "girlfriend" per se, for I considered her to be a "bed buddy." We only went out for a couple of weeks, so I was very surprised to find her at my place that night. I honestly didn't think it was a big deal. Apparently, I'm learning late in life, women take this sh*t a whole lot more seriously than I had ever imagined.

Seek · 01-18-2006, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by DJay23

You all seem to have misunderstood. By taking her home, I was not ending the relationship or trying to keep her from my ice cream, I was trying to help her avoid my bad mood. It just wasn't going to happen that night. Not breaking up with her, trying to SAVE the relationship. She wigged out, not me. I made a rude comment and tried stop the insanity.

Jesus, I'm done talking about this. I guess you had to be there to understand the level to which she lost it.

From reading your responses and your defense, I would have to agree with the women on this. This is your fault. First you dove into this way to fast and the talks of you already looking for a future X and you guaranteed that you will have sex again, shows that you are selfish. You could care less about that girl, only that she was easy.

Men don't get to use the PMS excuse. Since you knew you were in a bad mood, wouldn't it have made more sense to just call her up and say, you know what. I don't feel good tonight, I am not coming over to pick you up. Since you had to take her home I am assuming you picked her up. Does she live with her parents preventing you from staying over there. But instead you were thinking, of Mr. Wiggles, then you found out not tonight, which put you in a bigger bad mood. And something so stupid as picking out Peanut Butter made you snap. Get used to it, women do that all the time. They don't order French Fries because it will make them fat, but the grab a hand full of yours. they order a salad for dinner but have to try yours. They do things that men don't and you have to expect that, and except that. I mean you obviously gave her more than enough already for dating only a month and half, but ice cream set you two off.

A selfish person, would be thinking about their favorite socks at a time when it will all end. Most people would say F'em. There not worth the hassle. Again, I don't know why you would already be sharing your clothes after a month and a half. Didn't she wear her own socks to your place, or did she already claim them and just happened to wear them that night.

It certainly is a good thing you ended that. It looked like a lose lose situation for both of you. Both are at fault, but you are mostly at fault for even letting it happen.

01-17-2006, 11:49 AM
mike_b_284 Veteran Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Houston, TX Casino cash: $10004900	Psycho ex-stories I just broke up with my girlfriend this weekend and she isn't taking very well. And by well I mean with a shred of effing sanity. Some crazy shit has been going down. I think she might start stalking me. She came by to get the last of her stuff from my apartment. I went to my room to check to make sure she had everything, when I came out her and my mp3 player were gone. I went to ask for it back and she kept denying it. I wrote it off and left, happy never to talk to her again. I went and played video games at my friend's for a couple hours, then went to quiktrip for some food. While I am eating my hot dog in the parking lot, I look over and there she is. Keep in mind this is twenty minutes from where I live and from where she lives. This means she was driving around for at least forty minutes looking for me. She gets in my car and starts sobbing, telling me she can't sleep and all she can do is cry. I ask for my stuff back and she says no. I tell her to get out of my car and she says no. Finally a cop walks up and asks if everything is okay, before I can tell him to remove the bitch from my car she gets out. She called well over 20 times since then and I am starting to get a little nervous. How about your craziest ex's? rep to the worst
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01-17-2006, 11:35 PM	#368
CosmicPal Learn it. Know it. Live it. Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: St. Petersburg, FL Casino cash: $10004900	My ex's were usually pretty happy when it was all over with. I've never had a real bad break-up- they were all mostly mutual. I really didn't care, quite honestly. I did have one gal who called me one night after we'd been dating for a couple of months and said that she loved me. I really liked her at the time, but I couldn't reply with the "I love you" back. The next day, I called her house and her father answered. I felt bad and wanted to tell her I wanted to continue seeing her and to give me some time, but her father proceeded to tell me she left that morning to stay with her mom in Virginia! Needless to say, he knew why she wanted to leave KC and he was pissed at me. I apologized and tried to tell him that I really liked her, but I just didn't know if I loved her yet. It was all weird and I figured if she was so quick to leave like that, she wouldn't be someone I'd want to be around. So, I just let it be. A few years later, I'm in a bar in OPKS with some friends and she's there at the bar. I thought about it, and after awhile decided to go up to her and apologize. The bar was crowded and as I walked toward the bar I see her get up and go to the Ladies room. So, I walk over to the Ladies room and wait. A few minutes go by and chicks come in and out of the bathroom, but Becky never does come out. I begin to ask gals if they've seen her in there and nobody knows what I'm talking about. So, I decided to go in, and of course as soon as I do- a couple of gals start screaming so I walk back out again. She never did come out. I don't know what happened to her. And that was the last I ever saw of her.... __________________ - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - Four blessings upon my fellow planeteers: Older whiskey, younger women, faster horses, and more money.
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01-18-2006, 08:53 AM	#372
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