Jovan Belcher was one sick son of B****

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Exclusive: As troubles at home simmered, Chiefs tried to help Jovan Belcher
Police said the team was providing counseling to Jovan Belcher and his girlfriend, Kasandra Perkins. But Belcher, before taking his own life in the parking lot of the Chiefs’ practice facility, said it wasn’t enough to fix their problems.
By CHRISTINE VENDEL
The Kansas City Star




Seconds after fatally shooting his longtime girlfriend, Kansas City Chiefs linebacker Jovan Belcher leaned over her in their master bathroom, said he was sorry and kissed her on the forehead.

His mother, who heard gunfire as she stood in the kitchen, rushed to her son’s bedroom and watched his remorseful goodbye.

Belcher apologized to his mother, kissed his 3-month-old daughter and fled his rented home in the 5400 block of Crysler Avenue in his Bentley.

The Star learned those details and others from multiple police sources Monday as officers continued their investigation into why Belcher, 25, killed his live-in girlfriend, Kasandra Perkins, 22, on Saturday morning. Arguments over relationship and financial issues had simmered for months between them, according to the sources.

Belcher’s mother, who came from New York to live with her son so the couple could work through their issues, didn’t hear much of the argument. But just before 8 a.m., she heard her son say something to the effect of: “You can’t talk to me like that!”

Then she heard gunfire.

Afterward, Belcher drove to the only place he felt safe — to his other family at Arrowhead Stadium, police said.

As he covered the five miles from his home to the stadium, his violent act weighed on him, police believe.

“He probably realized he had done something and he couldn’t go back,” said Police Sgt. Richard Sharp.

In the parking lot of the practice facility at 1 Arrowhead Drive, Belcher encountered Chiefs General Manager Scott Pioli. Belcher stepped out of his Bentley with a gun pointed at his own head, police said.

“I did it,” he said, according to police. “I killed her.”

Club officials knew about the couple’s problems. The Chiefs had provided counseling and “were bending over backward” to help, Sharp said.

But Belcher told Pioli that the assistance wasn’t enough to fix their problems and now, “It was too late.”

When another Chiefs employee arrived, Pioli told him to stay back. Meanwhile Pioli tried to persuade Belcher to lay down the weapon, Sharp said.

Belcher thanked Pioli for everything he had done for him. He asked if he and Clark Hunt would take care of his daughter.

Chiefs Head Coach Romeo Crennel and linebackers coach Gary Gibbs arrived in the parking lot and Belcher reportedly announced, “Guys, I have to do this.”

Crennel tried to dissuade him.

“I was trying to get him to understand that life is not over,” Crennel told The Star. “He still has a chance and let’s get this worked out.’’

As Pioli and Crennel tried to reason with Belcher, the men heard police sirens closing in. Belcher then walked a few steps away with the gun still pointed at his head.

“I got to go,” Belcher reportedly said. “I can’t be here.”

Belcher knelt behind a vehicle and made the sign of the cross across his chest before firing a single bullet into his head.

Kansas City police believe Belcher killed himself because he was distraught over what he had done to Perkins.

“He cared about her,” Sharp said. “I don’t think he could live with himself.”

The night before the killings, Perkins had attended a concert downtown with friends, and Belcher had “partied” at the Power and Light District, police said. It was unclear when they arrived home, where Belcher’s mother was watching their baby. A woman who answered Belcher’s mother’s cell phone Monday declined to comment.

Detectives don’t know what specifically sparked the argument between the couple at home, but a friend of Perkins told The Star that the couple argued around 1 a.m. Saturday when Perkins returned home from the Trey Songz concert and drinks with friends afterward. Belcher was mad she had stayed out so late, the friend said.

Sometime later, Kansas City police talked with Belcher after finding him asleep in his Bentley on Armour Boulevard. Officers determined he was able to drive himself home. Police believe he arrived home about 7 a.m., well before a 9:30 team meeting. That’s when the yelling began.

Police said youth, immaturity and financial pressures served as a backdrop. During his college years, Belcher allegedly punched a dormitory window because he was upset over a woman.

Autopsies with toxicology tests were performed on both bodies, but results will take weeks, police said. Investigators believe alcohol may have played a role in the argument’s escalation.

Police recovered several legally owned guns from Belcher’s home. Investigators were testing each one, and the gun found with Belcher’s body, against shell casings and bullets they recovered.

Police spokesman Darin Snapp said Monday that Belcher’s mother, who had been staying with the couple, was given temporary custody of the couple’s daughter. But he said it was unclear if the grandmother and baby were still in the Kansas City area.

Perkins, who grew up in Texas, met Belcher, who grew up in New York, through a cousin, Whitney Golden Charles, the wife of Chiefs running back Jamaal Charles. Perkins moved to Kansas City in 2010 to be with Belcher. Her relatives learned of her death from the news, police said. A woman who answered the phone at a relative’s home Monday declined to comment.

Monday afternoon, the family issued a statement that spelled Perkins’ first name with a double s, though she spelled it with one on her Facebook page:

“On behalf of the Perkins Family, we appreciate the outpouring of love and concern for our Kassandra ‘Kasi’ Perkins. Our hearts are truly broken for Kasi was a beloved daughter, granddaughter, sister, mother, cousin and friend.…

“Please keep us in your hearts and prayers as well as the Belcher family for two lives were loss. Again we thank you for your support, our wish is for Kasi to be remembered for the love she shared with us all. Kasi will be truly missed!”

Jamaal Charles also released a statement: “Our family has suffered a personal tragic loss.… As this is a very tough time for our family, I ask that we are respected as we grieve. Kassandra was not only family, but a friend and a loving mother. As my actual family and my Kansas City Chiefs family have been altered forever, we ask that you keep us and most importantly their child in prayer. Thank you all for your continued support.”

Later Monday, Belcher’s somber relatives provided statements outside of Belcher’s boyhood home in New York. Yamiesse Lawrence, a cousin of Belcher’s, said the weekend’s events were an “inconceivable tragedy.”

“As a family, no words can express the sorrow we feel over the loss of Jovan and Kasandra,” Lawrence read aloud.

Read more here: http://www.kansascity.com/2012/12/04...#storylink=cpy

[Chief Pote]

Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

The world I live in? I'm college educated. I dated a licensed medical social worker for years that dealt with similar trauma.

I'm not some teenager experiencing life throw the glass eyes lens for the first time. I'm 47 ****ing years old and have seen more shit firsthand in this regard than I hope you'll see in your lifetime.

Pfff...you're not even old enough for your AARP card.

I got mine in the mail yesterday....mother****er I'm old now.

[KCWolfman]

Originally Posted by pkane

You're right, she probably did. She also probably didn't appreciate the parents of the kid being out until 1 or 7. Then again she could be there to take care of the kid because the actual parents were to immature.

You realize with all the supposition, you are fanning flames to a fire that should have died.

Nothing against anyone on this thread, but I am done posting on it. I am no better than those of you supposing and alluding and telling us why Scott Pioli is to blame, Belcher was a killer, and why their family life was atrocious. Simply because by pointing out your mistakes in the suppositions, I am adding as much fuel as you are. Keep giving life to a killer, I will not do so any longer. I apologize and I am done

[In58men]

6 different threads on Belcher lol.


Old news move on

[ARROW2]

I guarantee you the person who said "Rhyme and Bass soft porn sleaze fest" doesn't want Geno Smith......just sayin....

[ARROW2]

I'm out....it's over....like Romeo said....time to move on...

[rabblerouser]

Originally Posted by ARROW2

So if Trey Songz didn't suck in your opinion, it would have been OK? And why did it have to be a "Rhyme N' Bass lusty soft-porn sleaze fest"? If you don't like black music, that's your choice but the kind of concert she went to had nothing to do with Jovan staying out until 7AM and blasting her...

first off, I play bass in a blues band. For you to say I don't like black music is blitheringly ignorant.

Second...check out some Trey Songz live youtube videos, and try to tell me that it ISN'T soft-core porn, medicore rhyme-n-bass with lyrics about nothing but intercourse...

Third, the type of music, literature, entertainment, art, etc. that a person incorporates into their lives, their daily being, has a total impact on how you live a person lives their lives.

Most family people in an office job wearing a 3-piece don't listen to, say, Insane Clown Posse. Why?? Because it doesn't appeal to them.

There is a definte correlation, and it is not self-righteous. I like to party. I just don't agree with this dumbed-down and sexed-up culture, the hedonistic lifestyle of sex and drugs and 'do what you want because it's all about YOU - YOUR moment!'

No, I'm accountable to several other people, and myself. Call it self-righteous if you want. Call it whatever you want...but I'm able to sleep at night.

For sure don't stay out until 7AM then shoot my daughter's mother.

[bevischief]

Originally Posted by KCUnited

Jesus, it's like Dr. Drew meets The View in here.

I agree.

[memyselfI]

Originally Posted by Driving Wheel

Well, at least those two weren't.

It's absolutely true; Ol' Kasi shouldn't have been at some crappy Rhyme N' Bass lusty soft-porn sleaze fest, and Daddy Jovan shouldn't have been out getting drunk and chasing the muff around.

At 1AM, with a 3-month old baby...any decent human beings would have been home asleep with their kid. Especially when one of them has to be at the team facility in a few hours for a team meeting then a walkthrough.

Like, you'd think Belcher would've wanted to be home with his daughter and get rested up so he could put all his energy into trying to win an upcoming game...but in reality, fans probably care more about the games than the majority of players (like Belcher.)

Hate to sound callous, but **** Jovan and Kasi. Selfish fools, natural selection's a bitch. Stay home with your kid, get rested for work. 'Hanging in da club' is about the most ridiculous crock of horseshit anyway. Trey Songz is ****ing terrible; generic, sophmoric digitized BS that is literally about nothing more than intercourse (every. single. song.) If you have no culture, no couth...if you watch garbage, listen to garbage and do garbage thigs, your life will probably be garbage, too.

Stay home with your kids, go to bed early, act like a real family, ****. In America, it's 'cool' to NOT be close to your family, 'do your own thing, be your own person, etc.' There is no personal accountability. Jovan and Kasi were a couple of ****ing idiots, living a hollow, bullshit life - so selfish, that even WITH their ample financial resources, they weren't capable of taking care of a child. Probably why Belcher's mom was there in the first place.

****ing losers.

I'm with you on the last part I felt the same way when I heard that Patricia Lagaretta and Jamie Rohrs had a four month old and four year old at a midnight screaming of the The Dark Knight Rises. Who takes a child that young to see a movie at midnight let alone a movie like that? And no one in their right mind takes a four month old baby to that same movie. Yet, they were there.

I also got a glimpse of that on a smaller scale this summer in KC at Livestrong. Where I saw four babies all infants in the Cauldron. One was four weeks old. The Cauldron is a place where people get very excited, sometimes too excited. Sometimes beer is thrown. It's always loud and then there are the fireworks before the game. But there are these 20 something kids with their infants hanging off their shoulders.

I don't think young people with infants need to live like the Amish but when did it become acceptable to put your kid at risk or a second priority behind your entertainment needs? Rather, wants.

[ARROW2]

Blues? BWAHAHAHAH!!! Women are scantily clad in white performers videos also. Trey is not a dynamic singer but you don't have to be these days unfortunately. I have no issue with the women in the videos. Stop with the type of music you listen to shaping your life. You would be surprised who listens to what.....

[rabblerouser]

Originally Posted by KCWolfman

You are being self righteous. Look at your first sentence. You are judge and jury about their family life and the supposed need of his mother to watch the child with no proof other than your gut feeling. That is the very definition of self righteous.

I have stayed out until 7 am and gone to work. I was not drunk though. Again you are assuming he was.

Well...my gut, and the fact that they were constantly out drinking and arguing, and that he ****ing shot her to death and then killed himself in front of his HC and GM.

Other than that, no proof at all.

[loochy]

Originally Posted by Driving Wheel

first off, I play bass in a blues band. For you to say I don't like black music is blitheringly ignorant.

Second...check out some Trey Songz live youtube videos, and try to tell me that it ISN'T soft-core porn, medicore rhyme-n-bass with lyrics about nothing but intercourse...

Third, the type of music, literature, entertainment, art, etc. that a person incorporates into their lives, their daily being, has a total impact on how you live a person lives their lives.

Most family people in an office job wearing a 3-piece don't listen to, say, Insane Clown Posse. Why?? Because it doesn't appeal to them.

There is a definte correlation, and it is not self-righteous. I like to party. I just don't agree with this dumbed-down and sexed-up culture, the hedonistic lifestyle of sex and drugs and 'do what you want because it's all about YOU - YOUR moment!'

No, I'm accountable to several other people, and myself. Call it self-righteous if you want. Call it whatever you want...but I'm able to sleep at night.

For sure don't stay out until 7AM then shoot my daughter's mother.

i like you now

[rabblerouser]

Originally Posted by memyselfI

I'm with you on the last part I felt the same way when I heard that Patricia Lagaretta and Jamie Rohrs had a four month old and four year old at a midnight screaming of the The Dark Knight Rises. Who takes a child that young to see a movie at midnight let alone a movie like that? And no one in their right mind takes a four month old baby to that same movie. Yet, they were there.

I also got a glimpse of that on a smaller scale this summer in KC at Livestrong. Where I saw four babies all infants in the Cauldron. One was four weeks old. The Cauldron is a place where people get very excited, sometimes too excited. Sometimes beer is thrown. It's always loud and then there are the fireworks before the game. But there are these 20 something kids with their infants hanging off their shoulders.

I don't think young people with infants need to live like the Amish but when did it become acceptable to put your kid at risk or a second priority behind your entertainment needs? Rather, wants.

Holy ****, LOGIC.

[ARROW2]

Personally, I like looking at the soft porn in videos....and don't tell me you wouldn't "hit it" Be real...When Britney Spears was shaking dat ass in the videos, you liked it didn't you? Don't lie..

[rabblerouser]

Originally Posted by ARROW2

Blues? BWAHAHAHAH!!! Women are scantily clad in white performers videos also. Trey is not a dynamic singer but you don't have to be these days unfortunately. I have no issue with the women in the videos. Stop with the type of music you listen to shaping your life. You would be surprised who listens to what.....

love how you try and make this about race...

Racist.

[ARROW2]

Originally Posted by Driving Wheel

love how you try and make this about race...

Racist.

I can read between the lines...you have some in you, but that's OK....