Poop This sucks..Divorce. What is the best Online "D" site to use? - Page 12

Holladay · 10:35 PM

Been married for 24 yrs. 2 kids (18 son and 20 daughter), he is going Ks Nat Guard/KU(Pit St) ROTC route to be an officer, she graduates in 3 yrs, major int'l studies (whatever that is) minor bus minor soc.

Wife is German, met whilst in the Army Frankfurt. Did Desert Storm etc . Left Army as Capt and started my own bus. You look back, the hand writing is on the wall.

To get married, I called the Justice of the Peace in E-town (outside Ft Knox)..what does it take to get married. 30 min, $50. Put me down for 1:00pm next day. Next call was to an attourney...what does it take to get divorced. Uncontested...$200 and 30 min. Done. Married..1992.

She is a firecracker...good and bad. Smart and a Neat Freak. Through the yrs there have been many issues. Won't go into them yet. Asked a client which happens to be a Judge, years ago about keeping the kids (after wife went weirdo and put her hand through a glass window). Judge said no way to get kids???

Years flash forward. Stuff happens...small. We have talked D.

Last couple points. She was away in Germany for a month. She is, as mentioned before, a neat freak. I built a stairway into her loft (major deal), sweep, mop, dust, the whole house...cleaned the toilets. First thing she says when she comes home was "you didn't clean the microwave".

Last night, I asked if we could snuggle for a bit. ( We don't sleep in the same room, I snore) She didn't answer, later went up to her room and she is watching a internet German Soap Opera in bed. I asked which is more important...soap or snuggle. Soap. Last straw.

Thus this post.

So, this type of stuff has happened through years and am done. I have 20 yrs left (aged 52) and don't want to do this anymore...

She doesn't love me, I want to and do...but can't. 2 way street. Thus the D word.

Really don't want it to get nasty, nor her. I found a on-line D site. You fill out the forms and take it to a judge.

Which is the best one?

I wanna have fun my next 20 yrs( sex 3 times thus far this year

) , not be bitched at. Kids are gone, thus that issue is mute.

Thoughts?

Sorry, I need to see Jamal have more carries to see if he can carry the rock full time. NOW it is a football thread.

Thanks

Simply Red · 09-26-2017, 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Reerun_KC

25+ years and the Mrs and I have a solid healthy sex life. Once every 3-4 days usually keeps everyone happy.

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I wish you'd sex me

**ChiTown** · 09-26-2017, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Simply Red

I wish you'd sex me

Hog's Gone Fishin · 09-26-2017, 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Molitoth

lol.

Whenever my wife doesn't put out, I start introducing her as my "roommate".
This pisses her off, but eventually gets the job done.

I should give that a try. I figured if I'd just start rubbing one out at the dining table it might get her attention.

Calcountry · 09-26-2017, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Holladay

Man, thanks for your thoughts.

She is a great "business partner/family manager" with a sharp german tongue! With the kids gone...don't think I need that anymore. I was fantizing about finding another girl with "match.com". Boy, I was gonna be restrictive...that prolly would blow me outta the water from the start. lol.

But the new ADVENTURE. I haven't had that for 25 yrs.

I'm thinking, she knows what is going on. She has a bunch of assets in Germany. 50/50. She doesn't want to loss those. I don't want them. Kids gone...easy. Show her the online docs...discuss..sign.

If she pulls a Linda Blair (Exorcist for you youngsters...nice tits btw), do the attorney route.

Again, she has assets, thats the leverage.

There is no affair (other dude or duddette for me...yet), just fallen out of love.

She has expecting me to have talked to the attorney. Even has said "well, what did the attorney say".

This should be fine. I just wanted some CP ideas. If you hear of mutil gun shot deaths in lil Hiawatha, you will know it didn't go as planned. BIG JOKE. some CPer's are gonna freak. hheheh

Match sucks dude. You should read the profiles of some of these chicks. They want mr perfect AND do the dishes.

Calcountry · 09-26-2017, 06:46 PM

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Originally Posted by theelusiveeightrop

Walk away fast. Don't look back. Give her what she wants. Easier. No regrets. Just get out.

Whatever you do, don't make the attorneys rich.

If the two of you can do a deal, do a deal.

Calcountry · 09-26-2017, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Prison Bitch

Do whatever you can to reconcile. That's my advice

Great advice if she will go along with it.

Calcountry · 09-26-2017, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Prison Bitch

Above all, divorce with and without kids is totally different and should be treated as such. That said:

What does "being in love" even mean? Honestly: marriage is a partnership. A financial and legal partnership above all else. Normally to raise productive children. Being "in love" is way down the list no?

There are 4 good reasons to divorce, the 4 "A's": Adultery, Abandonment, Abuse, Addictions. Not being in love seems to be flimsy to me.

I had 3 of the 4 covered when the papers were served, she was in rehab and couldn't appear.

10-18-2016, 10:27 PM
Holladay Veteran Join Date: Sep 2000 Casino cash: $2619480	This sucks..Divorce. What is the best Online "D" site to use? Been married for 24 yrs. 2 kids (18 son and 20 daughter), he is going Ks Nat Guard/KU(Pit St) ROTC route to be an officer, she graduates in 3 yrs, major int'l studies (whatever that is) minor bus minor soc. Wife is German, met whilst in the Army Frankfurt. Did Desert Storm etc . Left Army as Capt and started my own bus. You look back, the hand writing is on the wall. To get married, I called the Justice of the Peace in E-town (outside Ft Knox)..what does it take to get married. 30 min, $50. Put me down for 1:00pm next day. Next call was to an attourney...what does it take to get divorced. Uncontested...$200 and 30 min. Done. Married..1992. She is a firecracker...good and bad. Smart and a Neat Freak. Through the yrs there have been many issues. Won't go into them yet. Asked a client which happens to be a Judge, years ago about keeping the kids (after wife went weirdo and put her hand through a glass window). Judge said no way to get kids??? Years flash forward. Stuff happens...small. We have talked D. Last couple points. She was away in Germany for a month. She is, as mentioned before, a neat freak. I built a stairway into her loft (major deal), sweep, mop, dust, the whole house...cleaned the toilets. First thing she says when she comes home was "you didn't clean the microwave". Last night, I asked if we could snuggle for a bit. ( We don't sleep in the same room, I snore) She didn't answer, later went up to her room and she is watching a internet German Soap Opera in bed. I asked which is more important...soap or snuggle. Soap. Last straw. Thus this post. So, this type of stuff has happened through years and am done. I have 20 yrs left (aged 52) and don't want to do this anymore... She doesn't love me, I want to and do...but can't. 2 way street. Thus the D word. Really don't want it to get nasty, nor her. I found a on-line D site. You fill out the forms and take it to a judge. Which is the best one? I wanna have fun my next 20 yrs( sex 3 times thus far this year) , not be bitched at. Kids are gone, thus that issue is mute. Thoughts? Sorry, I need to see Jamal have more carries to see if he can carry the rock full time. NOW it is a football thread. Thanks Last edited by Holladay; 10-18-2016 at 10:35 PM..
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