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Originally Posted by Reerun_KC
Missionary is very degrading to the women. Its for self center pleasure seeking men that want to orgasm in 2-3 pumps and then roll over and go to bed.
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warning, penthouse forum post ahead.
not always. the girlfriend and I, in previous relationships, were both huge fans of doggy (aka, where it's easy to pretend you're ****ing someone else if they're looking forward). these days it's 95% missionary--there's something downright spiritual about staring into the eyes of your beloved while both of you are racked with absolute pleasure. screw a few pumps, the real fun is in prolonging for a while and simply teasing her while she begs you to cum inside of her. you know, while her toy is out and teasing as well...
pretty much all sex CAN be degrading to both if it's not equal for both. you actually have to give a shit about your woman (or man's) pleasure as much, if not more, than your own. there's a reason that every freaking time I have sex with my woman it's one of the 'best times ever.' we both love sex, love each other, and it comes out (heh) during coitus.
so, sure. missionary CAN be demeaning. so can blow jobs. so can eating pussy. so can fingering, anal, licking ass, doggy, etc. something tells me that a lot of this 'demeaning' talk could come from relationships that aren't on equal footing.