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Originally Posted by Chiefshrink
And why I said they are "emotionally stunted".
This notion that once a boy begins to reach puberty he is immune to sexual abuse by an older woman because that is all he thinks about and wants, is just 'hogwash'. Our culture jokes about the fact that 'young boys' hot for teacher that wants him also can't be emotionally and mentally abused by the hot teacher is just patently false. He 'thinks' that is what he wants until the hot teacher begins to demand more and more emotional and mental commitment that this boy is no where able to give and now for the first time this young boy begins to feel emotionally and mentally overwhelmed with feelings of unworthiness and guilt and then depression sets in and he begins to want out of the relationship which makes the hot teacher attempt even harder to keep her illusion of her 'perfect lover' intact and secret. The boy feels he has no where to turn knowing his parents will disapprove and take action but yet the emotional and mental pain is so great that it finally breaks him and most times they will confess to their parents because of their prodding knowing something is wrong with their son. This is the usual cycle that occurs and why anyone should not joke or take lightly that young boys are just 'light victims' because this is what they want. Just the opposite.
These young boys are pretty much screwed in knowing real intimacy in a relationship later on in life not that it can't happen but it will be very difficult even IF they get help. Intimacy that I speak of is not 'sex' but being able to relate from the core of their heart to another woman. These boys have objectified women initially with all the porn infestation of our culture only now to live out their so called sexual fantasy which only comes back for revenge on their minds and hearts neutering their hearts for a real relationship.
David Lee Roth lied !!
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