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Ming the Merciless 01-12-2018 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by WhiteWhale (Post 13356820)
Honestly in 2018 USA I'm not sure why any man gets married.

You gain nothing and risk everything. It's a 1 sided contract. You can be in relationships without signing a 1 sided contract.

kind of this

i mean unless you are crazy enough to be wanting to have kids

but thats crazy....

you want your 50's and 60's to be fun and all about building up towards retirement

if this is like some younger hot chick who needs help and shes not a legitimate partner and bringing as much to the table financially as you and REALLY going to help you build toward retirement.....then do not do this...

if she is not wanting and needing to sign a prenuptial as much as you , do not even consider this....

you alreasdy know that love is more than pussy and ****ing

it is a business and life partnership as well...

be careful my dude we love u

MahiMike 01-12-2018 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by kjwood75nro (Post 13355686)
Marriage disrupts the natural power balance between men and women, to the detriment of men.

The only issue would be if minor children were involved, but since you're 50, that's unlikely.

Assuming no kids, don't even entertain the idea of marriage. You're just handing over half your shit for nothing, and that unearned power will make your woman crazy and take away your options for dealing with her.

This. Travel the world on your own. Enjoy the tastes of other countries and their women. I definitely would not marry an American chick. You'll end up on some #metoo list.

Easy 6 01-12-2018 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by ptlyon (Post 13355964)
Google "marriage as a horse race".

Warning NSFW

ROFL NSFW

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Eureka 01-12-2018 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by WhiteWhale (Post 13356820)
Honestly in 2018 USA I'm not sure why any man gets married.

You gain nothing and risk everything. It's a 1 sided contract. You can be in relationships without signing a 1 sided contract.

I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

Dave Lane 01-12-2018 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by bevischief (Post 13355626)
Are you really serious? I serious doubt I will ever do it again. Almost 20 years married. Like not having the baggage.

This. ****ing run. Have a long term girl friend. It's what I've done for 10 years.

Hog's Gone Fishin 01-12-2018 09:35 PM

You won't need a wife. Come next season Mahomes will satisfy all your needs.

DaneMcCloud 01-12-2018 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Eureka (Post 13357077)
Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

Just as long as you don’t mind hearing about it every single day until you’re in the morgue

Gonzo 01-12-2018 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by bevischief (Post 13355626)
Are you really serious? I serious doubt I will ever do it again. Almost 20 years married. Like not having the baggage.

I've said it before and I'll say it again.

You're brilliant in your own way my friend.

stumppy 01-12-2018 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Eureka (Post 13357077)
I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

That's a bullet she'll be firing during the inevitable fights.

AssEaterChief 01-12-2018 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud (Post 13357247)
Just as long as you don’t mind hearing about it every single day until you’re in the morgue

ROFL

cooper barrett 01-12-2018 10:20 PM

I was married for 20, been with a live in SO for 10 years, Both have their points but a woman who's life will take a huge downturn is much easier to deal with than the one who will try to take 70% of your shit. One who has their own money is like a unicorn.

I feel better with a simple cohabitation agreement, Our names are both on the house along with a trust with a contract that says basically that if she leaves me she gets a flat $20 grand, If I throw her out she gets $40K. or enough for a DP on a place.

I'd be more than happy to discuss privately the financial arrangements I have made.

cooper barrett 01-12-2018 11:00 PM

Ever hear of a prenuptial agreement? IMHO the less lawyers are involved...

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Originally Posted by Titty Meat (Post 13355660)
Don't. Just **** women and become an alcoholic you'll have fun then one day you die.

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Originally Posted by kjwood75nro (Post 13355686)
Marriage disrupts the natural power balance between men and women, to the detriment of men.

The only issue would be if minor children were involved, but since you're 50, that's unlikely.

Assuming no kids, don't even entertain the idea of marriage. You're just handing over half your shit for nothing, and that unearned power will make your woman crazy and take away your options for dealing with her.


WhiteWhale 01-13-2018 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Eureka (Post 13357077)
I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

As long as you understand you're always #3 behind herself and her career.

If she has kids, forget about it.

JMO.

However, if she's a childless career woman be careful. She may view you as nothing more than a potential sperm donor happy and willing to dump you into the gutter once she gets what she wants. Plus a chunk of your earnings for a child you'll rarely see.

I'm not saying she DOES, but man... men are WAY too oblivious to the machinations of women.

cooper barrett 01-13-2018 05:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Eureka (Post 13357077)
I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?


BryanBusby 01-13-2018 06:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Eureka (Post 13357077)
I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

I wouldn't give a flying **** if my wife made more.

She could tell me about it every day and come home from work and demand I munch her box. Wouldn't give a shit.


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