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ChiTown 01-12-2018 12:22 PM

You're 50. Do what makes you happy. If it's marriage that makes you happy, do it. If it's just being in a relationship with her that makes you happy, meh, why push it into marriage? JMHO

seclark 01-12-2018 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiTown (Post 13356181)
You're 50. Do what makes you happy. If it's marriage that makes you happy, do it. If it's just being in a relationship with her that makes you happy, meh, why push it into marriage? JMHO

^this^
as for me, i'm thinking i've been married around 38years. if and when it ever ends, that's it. no more. geeze, i hate to think of trying to get someone else to wash my underwear.
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eDave 01-12-2018 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by blackkatesmiranda (Post 13355782)
Anyone with experience taking plunge again ?

It looks like the consensus is Do not !

I did. That one didn't work either. In hindsight, I used her to move on from the other.

eDave 01-12-2018 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by IowaHawkeyeChief (Post 13355876)
It's pretty simple to me... I have been married for 27 years, good time and bad, however, the hardest time was menopause. It was a rough 3-4 years and was like satan came to the house on a daily basis. It is way better almost 2 years out. I am about a year older than you, if I was single, knowing what I know now, I would marry someone in their early 30's or someone who is already through menopause. I definitely wouldn't marry someone in their mid-40' about ready to go through this... I know you can't control who you love, but it is a hard a wierd time and lots of couples don't make it through this stage.

Sex completely stopped when my GF went into menopause. For a long time. And we are done now. Gotta have that physical relationship or it will fail. Guaranteed.

Titty Meat 01-12-2018 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Prison Bitch (Post 13356080)
I love the lame ass "Without knowing your situation, I cannot comment"


Then don't!

I don't know his situation but you should warm up.

If he wants to make her happy he should


BRING IN THE CLOSER

Over Yonder 01-12-2018 01:57 PM

I guess you can put me in the crowd that thinks once is enough. Still married to the high school sweetheart. If that ever goes south, I'm out of the game. Well I think that way now, I guess we would see if I looked at it different if that time came.

I can't imagine willfully subjecting myself to TWO women to bitch at me, even if at separate times :shake: . And if times got tough sexually, I'd just buy a porn and pull the shades down :(

Prison Bitch 01-12-2018 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Titty Meat (Post 13356338)
I don't know his situation but you should warm up.

If he wants to make her happy he should


BRING IN THE CLOSER


If he's dating a menopausal woman, I'll had ve to do it dirty. I'll squirt a tube of lube on her, and go all monkey-crazy on that monkey

gblowfish 01-12-2018 02:43 PM

Do you like to kick, stretch, and kick???

http://www.nbc.com/saturday-night-li...y/n12147?snl=1

journeyscarab 01-12-2018 03:32 PM

I've been through one womans bootcamp (27 years) - I think I would go it alone and do things differently.

Monty 01-12-2018 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Graystoke (Post 13355899)
States that observe Common Law.
•Alabama.
•Colorado.
•District of Columbia.
•Georgia (if created before 1/1/97)
•Idaho (if created before 1/1/96)
•Iowa.
•Kansas.
•Montana.

Add Texas to the list. :thumb:

Monty 01-12-2018 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiTown (Post 13356181)
You're 50. Do what makes you happy. If it's marriage that makes you happy, do it. If it's just being in a relationship with her that makes you happy, meh, why push it into marriage? JMHO

+1 Your gut will tell you what's best for you. If you want to be together, then be together.

Prison Bitch 01-12-2018 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Monty (Post 13356781)
+1 Your gut will tell you what's best for you. If you want to be together, then be together.

He was asking about marriage

JakeLV 01-12-2018 05:03 PM

Some bitter ****ing people who exist here.

Marriage and relationships are all about work. If you marry somebody not expecting to have to work at it, then you're doing it wrong. If you expect that she'll cook, clean, and let you go fishing every weekend until the end, make sure she knows that up FRONT and that those things aren't suddenly going to change, and that she needs to set those same expectations for you.

If that works for the two of you then mazle tov.

WhiteWhale 01-12-2018 05:12 PM

Honestly in 2018 USA I'm not sure why any man gets married.

You gain nothing and risk everything. It's a 1 sided contract. You can be in relationships without signing a 1 sided contract.

Ming the Merciless 01-12-2018 05:16 PM

prenuptial agreement or dont even think about it

do not comingle your funds or assets


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