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Dude. What? Kids ruin your life?

First, kids aren’t that damn expensive. I buy the best diapers and wipes on the market and they’re not bad. Like at all. We buy hand me down clothes. Even for a 4 year old it isn’t hard to find stuff that is t hardly used at all. Babies eat from mom and the 4 year old still eats way cheaper than the wife.

Stress? Come on man. It takes a menial amount of problem solving to figure out what they need and then if you aren’t manager enough to accommodate the logistics of getting it done, you don’t have much of a life to ruin.

And Freedom? Seriously? If your self worth revolves around traveling and eating at douchey restaurants or just flat out partying, again, there isn’t much of a life to ruin.

Kids at least when they’re little (my oldest is 4) provide so much more Utility (happiness, fulfillment, love) than they detract from your life it isn’t funny. They’re not easy, but I’m very much not a kid person and they’re not bad as long as your not a self-absorbed ****bag that cares more about what your kids are costing you than caring for your kids (my sister is this way).

If your married, have kids. Do research, prepare, and plan like you should any major life decision and set forth to do the best you can as a parent.

Ruin your life. ROFL

I got them both through college debt free, good hubbys, nice grand kids too.

I don't think selling them was ever an option but at least I haven't got a call saying their house is being ropo'ed or I need money or Luigi is going to break my husband's knees into pieces... That alone is Mastercard "priceless"

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And so do I, I mean we...

It is. After spending 18 years in the Chicago area, it has been good for the sole.

You’re wrong.

Other people’s kids are not my kids.

He obviously doesn't have or need to have kids.

I would give up everything I have if it meant having my kids.

My youngest daughter is downstairs practicing her trumpet, my son is crying because he thought it was a great idea to stick his cat in the Rottweiler's face [dog doesn't give a shit about the cats at all] and cat dug its claws in his neck pretty deep. I still made fun of him for crying.

I wouldn't trade it for the world

Pedaling auto parts in Chicago must have some great stories...

I sincerely hope that if your daughter goes to UCLA, she goes working for a degree towards a good career path and not something like photography.

I can’t imagine paying for my kid to go to an expensive school and then wasting the money.

Retired at 53 with a TEAMSTERS Pension after working 32 years in Air Freight starting with EmeryWorldwide, CF AIR, and UPS. F-ing AWESOME!

I had to pay for all mine, that being said I will be able to retire in 10 years because I didn't have kids and the Chiefs were really, really good for a 6 year stretch and they made me a lot of cash.

I'm not suggesting this is typical, but the AVERAGE cop's salary in my town is $103,000/yr. Cops in NJ are not having much trouble saving for retirement.

Objectively speaking, yes. Without kids you'd have a shit ton more money and freedom with a lot less stress.

I see a group of people who make the world we live in a better place and who's children should grow up to do the same. Then there's one that I hope gets a industrial strength vasectomy, just on the slightest chance he could get laid no less get a woman pregnant. (Oh wait, he's already had one. You certainly read between the lines.) Just in case, have another knot installed, a tight one, just for good measure.


I know that watching my daughter's excel at life's challenges has never made me think something like: "She should have got an "l" at State, those voice lessons cost a fortune." or after 5 years of dance, "This is what they give for trophies at Nationals?" I'm proud that my kids make a difference in children's lives and if someone ever set out to hurt them, I would not be held back from protecting them with everything I have. I think it need not be said, there are many others that feel the same as I do.

If you're "that guy" than chances are the kid you raise (Should the unlikely happen) would be "this kid"
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So, I have to reinforce my thoughts on a double knot.

If you are that "Paradox" person who is looking at the fact that raising children is a bittersweet ritual of sorts that you feel forced to do: I suggest you find a family therapist so that your daughter or son does't get a "Guilty vote" on the "Sex with a student" thread.

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I tip my hat to those who choose to keep "Family First" and themselves third in regards to your children. May you never look back and ask yourself "What would my life been like without them"

Where do you live Saddle River? Montvale?

The median home value in Saddle River is $1,769,300

Montvale $854,628

Where does the cost of living fall in? What does a decent 3 bedroom split level cost?