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Old 12-29-2012, 04:38 PM  
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If your friend has an affair...

will you tell his/her spouse about it?

Why or why not?

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If you discover your friend's spouse has an affair, would you tell your friend about it?
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Old 12-29-2012, 07:54 PM   #46
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Old 12-29-2012, 07:59 PM   #47
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will you tell his/her spouse about it?

Why or why not?

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If you discover your friend's spouse has an affair, would you tell your friend about it?
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Serious question...

Your friend robs a bank. nobody got hurt and he got away with a lot of money. do you tell on him?
These things are not my business.
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:13 PM   #48
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How'd you find out about the affair in the first place? See them by accident or what?


or peeping tom
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:15 PM   #49
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DaKCMan AP stays the **** out of other people's relationships.
here is the thing with that saying, if its a close friend and you are really good friends, then staying out of it means your just a shitty friend, but if the people involved are shady with relationships all the way around, then it doesn't ****ing matter.
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:17 PM   #50
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will you tell his/her spouse about it?

Why or why not?

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If you discover your friend's spouse has an affair, would you tell your friend about it?
If you have any semblence of intelligence, you stay the **** out of it.

It isn't your business and you should distance yourself from it as much as possible else become an accessory to the fact.

Unless the person is a complete moron, they'll figure out that their spouse is having an affair on their own. It's actually pretty ****ing easy to see once you get past the "She/He wouldn't do that to me!" stage.
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:17 PM   #51
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:20 PM   #52
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:20 PM   #53
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here is the thing with that saying, if its a close friend and you are really good friends, then staying out of it means your just a shitty friend, but if the people involved are shady with relationships all the way around, then it doesn't ****ing matter.
I call bullshit. A real friend would sniff that shit out before the relationship became serious.
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:30 PM   #54
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Too many variables to answer but probably no then yes. Depends on loyalty and two million other factors.

Friendship goes a long way with me but I'd probably keep out of the whole situation.
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:49 PM   #55
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Question 1:.

No but it would probably shaken my friendship with him and I would advise him to think about the big picture damage is he doing to himself, his wife & God.

Question 2:

Yes. My loyalty is with my friend.


It might not make perfect sense given it's no for one and yes for the other but I've never claimed to be a perfect person. I just call it as I see it folks.
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:59 PM   #56
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nothing back since then?
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Old 12-29-2012, 09:06 PM   #57
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Unless the person is a complete moron, they'll figure out that their spouse is having an affair on their own. It's actually pretty ****ing easy to see once you get past the "She/He wouldn't do that to me!" stage.
You think so?
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Old 12-29-2012, 09:37 PM   #58
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Would I tell the spouse, probably not. But I wouldn't do anything to cover for the friend either. I might tell my wife and let her go do the dirty work.

As far as my friend's spouse having an affair, I assume he would already have some suspicion, so I might try to confirm his suspicion without spelling it out for him.

If I found out that my friend's spouse was having an affair because I woke up next to her in a cheap motel room, I would not say anything to my friend.
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Old 12-29-2012, 10:21 PM   #59
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Are you people serious? One of your boys cheats and you get bent out of shape over it. Just keep your mouf shut and go on w your life. Telling a friends spouse or sig other they cheated on them is the lowest thing a friend can do. If you find out she's cheating on him that's a totally different story. Be loyal to your friends. FFS why are you even asking this question about what you should do. Do you not understand bro code?
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Old 12-30-2012, 12:07 AM   #60
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Situation 1 (I consider the cheater a friend but do not consider the victim a friend) I would no longer be friends with the cheater. I would not go out of my way to tell the victim, but I wouldn't go out of my way to conceal it, either.

Situation 2 (I consider the victim a friend but I do not consider the cheater a friend) Of course I would tell the victim (my friend) what I knew.
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