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ThaVirus · 12-06-2012, 12:03 PM

How do you feel about this age-old question?

Can you ever fully trust someone that's cheated?

How about when a woman (or man, if that's what you're into) cheated on their significant other with you, dumped the other person, then began a relationship with you? Anyone ever had that situation? Did it work out?

If you're brave enough, has anyone here ever cheated? Was it a one time thing or recurring? Were you ever able to stop your adulterous ways?

Radar Chief · 12-07-2012, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by stevieray

Celebrated 20 years on wednesday...never would've happened if either on of us had cheated...we made that agreement before we tied the knot.

I'm crazy about my wife.

No. Way. The 12th? That’s Mrs. Radar and my anniversary also, 14 years.

ThaVirus · 12-07-2012, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Setsuna

So cheating extends to emotional cheating as well right? Not just physical or does OP just mean physical?

By emotional cheating do you mean late night phone calls and risque text messages that never actually lead to physical intimacy?

Discuss whatever you guys feel is cheating and whether or not you feel someone that cheats can change.

Looking at the poll it seems a majority feel they could never trust someone that cheated...

And congrats to you guys for your lasting marriages. Not so many of those these days.

CLX · 12-07-2012, 12:47 PM

Before I read the OP I figured you were talking about the HC of the Patriots. All things considered, I'm sure he has not changed his stripes.

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus

How do you feel about this age-old question?

Can you ever fully trust someone that's cheated?

How about when a woman (or man, if that's what you're into) cheated on their significant other with you, dumped the other person, then began a relationship with you? Anyone ever had that situation? Did it work out?

If you're brave enough, has anyone here ever cheated? Was it a one time thing or recurring? Were you ever able to stop your adulterous ways?

Branden Albert's Huge Balls · 12-07-2012, 02:10 PM

I'm totally fine with guys cheating. I wouldn't disrespect a buddy if he cheated, and would never tell. Women who cheat, on the other hand, are filthy whores and have no respect for. If I know a girl cheats I will tell on her to everyone. I know it isn't logical, but something about nature and the way we perceive genders in our society have left me with this mindset.

R8ers · 12-07-2012, 02:16 PM

Until someone finds the right person they are not going to be loyal.

Strongside · 12-07-2012, 02:40 PM

ThaVirus · 12-07-2012, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Cassel's Reckoning

I'm totally fine with guys cheating.

But do you continue to "make love" to him at the risk of catching AIDS?

Strongside · 12-07-2012, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus

But do you continue to "make love" to him at the risk of catching AIDS?

I just read this in Christian Bale's Batman voice with the face in your avatar. It was quite entertaining.

**Phobia** · 12-07-2012, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Brock

Sure! Now if you'll excuse me, I have to get back to doing whatever I want whenever I want.

I do whatever I want whenever I want too. But now I just get to phrase where I'm going in the form of a question instead of a statement. It's a fair compromise. I don't think my lady has ever said, "no" so I either don't want to go do whatever I want very often, she's incredibly understanding, or her boyfriend likes it when I leave.

**GloryDayz** · 12-07-2012, 06:30 PM

I guess growing up in Europe affected me... A relation built on sex, and limited by it, isn't much of one really. Spare me my own Christian rebuttal please! I think somebody truly wanting to be with somebody else, sex not being the limiting factor, is the root of the question, not getting Willy wet! One-night-stands don't end anything because they are essentially a roller coaster ride. The issue really comes in when the "stand" is made because of the root of the problem isn't right - wanting to be with the other person.

So get Willy wet if the perfect "other" has become boring. If it's deeper than that, stop thinking it's about Willy and answer the bigger question... And that goes for both people in the relationship..

**keg in kc** · 12-07-2012, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Cassel's Reckoning

I'm totally fine with guys cheating. I wouldn't disrespect a buddy if he cheated, and would never tell. Women who cheat, on the other hand, are filthy whores and have no respect for. If I know a girl cheats I will tell on her to everyone. I know it isn't logical, but something about nature and the way we perceive genders in our society have left me with this mindset.

I'm guessing it has a little more to do with the first 30 years of your life and the impact it's had on both your self-perception and the way you perceive the female gender.

Brock · 12-07-2012, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Phobia

I do whatever I want whenever I want too. But now I just get to phrase where I'm going in the form of a question instead of a statement. It's a fair compromise. I don't think my lady has ever said, "no" so I either don't want to go do whatever I want very often, she's incredibly understanding, or her boyfriend likes it when I leave.

Surely you do a lot of things you DON'T want to do too.

Discuss Thrower · 12-07-2012, 07:55 PM

One last thing I need to get off my chest:

As hypocritical as it is of me to say, I loathe cheaters. My perspective comes from knowing how it messed my mom up when her SO of 10+ years cheated on her with four other women, and I see how ****ed up it is when a certain person I know of caught an STD with one girl, then tried to blame it on the girl who he had almost knocked up twice, all the while he's been cheating on his girlfriend of multiple years whom he'll stay with because she's his sugar momma.

Maybe I'm just a bitch, guess that's acceptable. Time to start fisting close female relatives I guess.

ThaVirus · 12-07-2012, 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Phobia

I do whatever I want whenever I want too. But now I just get to phrase where I'm going in the form of a question instead of a statement.

**Mr. Kotter** · 12-07-2012, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Cassel's Reckoning

I'm totally fine with guys cheating. I wouldn't disrespect a buddy if he cheated, and would never tell. Women who cheat, on the other hand, are filthy whores and have no respect for. If I know a girl cheats I will tell on her to everyone. I know it isn't logical, but something about nature and the way we perceive genders in our society have left me with this mindset.

I hope, for your sake, you are gay; then maybe....you can find happiness. Good luck, Biff.

View Poll Results: Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Yes. If they'll do it once, they're bound to do it again.	64	47.41%
No. People can change.	25	18.52%
It depends on the circumstances.	38	28.15%
Dane is a douche.	8	5.93%
Voters: 135. You may not vote on this poll

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GloryDayz Clark, do the right thing(s).. Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Lee's Summit, MO Casino cash: $74986	I guess growing up in Europe affected me... A relation built on sex, and limited by it, isn't much of one really. Spare me my own Christian rebuttal please! I think somebody truly wanting to be with somebody else, sex not being the limiting factor, is the root of the question, not getting Willy wet! One-night-stands don't end anything because they are essentially a roller coaster ride. The issue really comes in when the "stand" is made because of the root of the problem isn't right - wanting to be with the other person. So get Willy wet if the perfect "other" has become boring. If it's deeper than that, stop thinking it's about Willy and answer the bigger question... And that goes for both people in the relationship.. __________________ Come on Clark Hunt, you can do this... Glass is doing shit over at the K, so if you do something awesome here, this city could go back to having awesomeness abounding in it's teams (and lots of support from the fans too). Come on buddy, do this thing...
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Discuss Thrower International Postman Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: No, where do YOU live? Casino cash: $29136	One last thing I need to get off my chest: As hypocritical as it is of me to say, I loathe cheaters. My perspective comes from knowing how it messed my mom up when her SO of 10+ years cheated on her with four other women, and I see how **ed up it is when a certain person I know of caught an STD with one girl, then tried to blame it on the girl who he had almost knocked up twice, all the while he's been cheating on his girlfriend of multiple years whom he'll stay with because she's his sugar momma. Maybe I'm just a bitch, guess that's acceptable. Time to start fisting close female relatives I guess. __________________ - credit goes to BoneKrusher for the pic "Inception**: (in-ˈsep-shən)--n. the act of convincing a female (usually out of one’s league) to have sex with you by making the female think it is her own idea.
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