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Old 01-23-2006, 11:07 AM  
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Online flirting

Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?

My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.

I call bull****. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet their future spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.

I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.

Thoughts?

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Old 01-23-2006, 11:44 AM   #31
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I think at some point it goes over the line, but I'd have a hard time defining where that is any better than Iowanian's if-my-SO-reads-it-will-he/she-care rule, so I'll go with that. The specific answer to the question you really want to ask is "hell yes it's wrong and you should give R&F a severe spanking when she gets home tonight."
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:46 AM   #32
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The Line.

I think there are different levels.

"hey fine thing, your type'n is teh sexaaaaaaah.....what do you think Pitt is going to do to stop the Denver Roll out?"...is fine with me.

out in the open, with a little comment here or there isn't any big deal to me, but an email with personal info or a detailed blow by blow of what you're gonna do? Yeah.

If I send some broad a PM telling her that I'd like to speed read the chinese alphabet in tongue-brail on her pearl, my wife should be pissed at me.
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:48 AM   #33
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I'm still not convinced that "Mer" isn't just the handle Endelt posts under when he's got his junk tucked and the lipstick on.
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:49 AM   #34
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Cause flirting's fun. It's not that you need to do it... but, it beats the hell out of arguing.
What makes flirting fun, at least to guys, is the fact that EVERY ONE OF THEM has a little part of their brain that's telling them "they just might get some someday".

Don't deny it; to say otherwise is pure BS.
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:50 AM   #35
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I think Mr. Iowanian's approach is correct.

There is a distinction between "innocent" flirtation and something more serious.

But, if your SO gets you PO'd you can always KO the SO. That usually solves the problem.

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Old 01-23-2006, 11:52 AM   #36
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Kick that bitch to the curb!

No seriously, if you're uncomfortable with it then it shouldn't be going on. That's marraige man.
She should respect your feelings enough not to do that type of shit. It goes both ways as well.
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:53 AM   #37
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I'm fairly sure it's pretty fun to watch men puff up with self importance just because you were able to string 3 words together that inflated his ego.

We don't need flirting on the internet for the dream of getting laid. Every guy on the street is a potential dream.

I do need Iowanni to blow me tho.
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:56 AM   #38
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So why are you always flirting with Chiefs4me then?






ah skip, you have been out of the loop to long...killer calling me slut is NOT flirting old man......
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:57 AM   #39
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I'm still not convinced that "Mer" isn't just the handle Endelt posts under when he's got his junk tucked and the lipstick on.
They told me to stop wearing lipstick to the office, actually.
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:58 AM   #40
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I'm fairly sure it's pretty fun to watch men puff up with self importance just because you were able to string 3 words together that inflated his ego.

We don't need flirting on the internet for the dream of getting laid. Every guy on the street is a potential dream.

I do need Iowanni to blow me tho.
Whatever works for you.

My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.

Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.


Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.


No exceptions.
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Old 01-23-2006, 11:59 AM   #41
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What makes flirting fun, at least to guys, is the fact that EVERY ONE OF THEM has a little part of their brain that's telling them "they just might get some someday".

Don't deny it; to say otherwise is pure BS.
I like to get a rise out of people in general. My flirting might be a little different than most. My overall goal is to get the gal's jaw to drop and that "oh my godd.... did he really just say that to me?" look on her face.

But, yeah... I don't so much flirt with ugly girls.
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Old 01-23-2006, 12:00 PM   #42
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Old 01-23-2006, 12:01 PM   #43
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I like to get a rise out of people in general. My flirting might be a little different than most. My overall goal is to get the gal's jaw to drop and that "oh my godd.... did he really just say that to me?" look on her face.

But, yeah... I don't so much flirt with ugly girls.

You can't bull**** me.

The fact that you found a cute little angle doesn't change what's going on between your ears.
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Old 01-23-2006, 12:02 PM   #44
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Whatever works for you.

My earlier reply was referring to men in particular.

Every man who's ever flirted with you, whether it was the mailman or a creepy first cousin, has wanted to have sex with you. I don't care what they say, it doesn't matter.


Where men are concerned: Flirting = desire for sex.


No exceptions.
Any time a guy talks to me at all that's what he's thinking.
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Old 01-23-2006, 12:04 PM   #45
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Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?

My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.

I call bull****. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.

I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.

Thoughts?
I'm new but this intrigued me.

I think flirting on a bulletin board is just words unless pictures, emails and phone calls are involved.

I haven't seen any pictures so I'd guess it's just words being exchanged.

I do know, from experience, that trust is like a soap bubble, once broken it cannot be replaced.
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