Home Discord Chat
Go Back   ChiefsPlanet > Nzoner's Game Room
Reload this Page Life Tonight I watched my brother-in-law die
Register FAQDonate Members List Calendar

Reply
Page 2 of 5 1 2 345
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 11-18-2016, 11:34 PM  
Lex Luthor Lex Luthor is offline
MVP
 
Lex Luthor's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Casino cash: $10022775
Tonight I watched my brother-in-law die
Tonight was a horrible, horrible night. My wife's brother has been in the hospital for a little over a week. This morning my wife got the call we had been fearing would come: his condition had deteriorated so much that he would never regain consciousness. He was being kept alive with a feeding tube and a ventilator, and several of his organs had shut down. The doctor said the family needs to decide if they should pull the plug.

My wife and I went to the hospital this evening along with her other brother and his wife. Just before we got there a priest had finished performing last rites. The doctor confirmed what we had been told earlier: there was no hope for recovery. He said if they took off the ventilator, he would pass away within a few minutes. He asked what we wanted to do. After much anguish and soul-searching, we agreed that he should be taken off the ventilator.

My wife and her brother were too distraught to stay in the room. They went to a waiting room. My sister-in-law and I stayed with him until the end. We watched as the nurse took off the ventilator mask that was covering his nose and mouth. We watched our brother-in-law begin to gasp for air. My sister-in-law held his hand the entire time, and we both told him that we all love him and that it's OK to let go. He was unconscious the entire time. I saw his eyelids flutter once, but they stayed closed the rest of the time. This went on for about 20 minutes. It seemed like an eternity. He stopped breathing several times. Then he would gasp for air and it would all start over again. Then he finally stopped gasping for air for the last time. The nurse had turned off the monitor, so there was no flatline like you see on TV. There was just silence. Finally the nurse walked in and told us he had passed. She had been watching on the monitor at the nurse's station.

It's been several hours. I still cry when I think about it. I'm crying like a baby right now. He died of a drug overdose. He was 52.
Posts: 16,709
Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Lex Luthor is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 12:46 AM   #16
stevieray stevieray is offline
best in the biz
 
stevieray's Avatar
 

Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Under Pressure
Casino cash: $2615273
I've seen drugs destroy many a good people.

Godspeed to you and your family.
Posts: 71,185
stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.stevieray is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 12:46 AM   #17
EPodolak EPodolak is offline
Spooky Action
 
EPodolak's Avatar
 

Join Date: Dec 2003
Casino cash: $2672558
Such a difficult time, I wish you and your family comfort as you move forward.
Posts: 6,331
EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.EPodolak 's phone was tapped by Scott Pioli.
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 12:49 AM   #18
DanT DanT is offline
Veteran
 

Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Davis, CA
Casino cash: $4531711
that's very sad...prayers for you and your family
Posts: 4,224
DanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliDanT 's adopt a chief was Sabby Piscitelli
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 12:50 AM   #19
Buns Buns is offline
BUNS <3 2PM
 
Buns's Avatar
 

Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Las Vegas, NV
Casino cash: $4161989
Sorry to hear this, my condolences to you and your family
Posts: 1,488
Buns has disabled reputation
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 01:06 AM   #20
Hamwallet Hamwallet is offline
Veteran
 

Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: Central Florida
Casino cash: $1429080
Man... I hope your family finds some peace in these terrible times.
Posts: 3,714
Hamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliHamwallet 's adopt a chief was Sabby Piscitelli
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 01:09 AM   #21
Perineum Ripper Perineum Ripper is offline
Supporter
 
Perineum Ripper's Avatar
 

Join Date: Jan 2014
Location: Missouri
Casino cash: $1959542
So very sorry to hear this..stay strong..if you need to talk you can message me
Posts: 5,208
Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.Perineum Ripper is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 01:14 AM   #22
eDave eDave is offline
Banned
 

Join Date: Jan 2013
Casino cash: $9998560
Heartbreaking Lex. Glad you were able to talk about it here.
Posts: 53,803
eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.eDave is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 05:33 AM   #23
Dallas Chief Dallas Chief is offline
Veteran
 
Dallas Chief's Avatar
 

Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Jupiter, FL.
Casino cash: $2195273
Sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family...
Posts: 3,834
Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.Dallas Chief threw an interception on a screen pass.
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 06:23 AM   #24
PhillyChiefFan PhillyChiefFan is offline
Veteran
 
PhillyChiefFan's Avatar
 

Join Date: May 2007
Location: Harrisburg, PA
Casino cash: $4591139
Wow, that was a heartbreaking story man. My condolences.
Posts: 3,404
PhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby PiscitelliPhillyChiefFan 's adopt a chief was Sabby Piscitelli
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 06:35 AM   #25
dannybcaitlyn dannybcaitlyn is online now
Supporter
 
dannybcaitlyn's Avatar
 

Join Date: Oct 2004
Casino cash: $5244000
I feel for you and your family. Condolences
Posts: 6,984
dannybcaitlyn has disabled reputation
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 06:52 AM   #26
BlackHelicopters BlackHelicopters is offline
Spiraling down the Drain
 
BlackHelicopters's Avatar
 

Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Dante's Ninth Circle
Casino cash: $2740588
Prayers to your family and you, LL.
__________________
"We're both part of the same hypocrisy, Senator, but never think it applies to my family."


"Fredo. You are my brother, and I love you. But never take sides against the Family again. Ever."
2019 Adopt a Chief - Travis Kelce #87
Posts: 31,661
BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.BlackHelicopters is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 07:06 AM   #27
TEX TEX is online now
Out Gunning CP's Fandom Police
 
TEX's Avatar
 

Join Date: Aug 2000
Location: Laguna Beach, CA
Casino cash: $2393127
Prayers. I've experienced a loss like that. It's very hard to deal with because its so senseless, but in time you will find ways to deal with it.
__________________
"The CHIEFS, HAVE THEIR DYNASTY!"
Posts: 34,659
TEX has disabled reputation
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 07:06 AM   #28
Coochie liquor Coochie liquor is online now
Bolton gonna knock you out
 
Coochie liquor's Avatar
 

Join Date: Mar 2014
Location: Free Vybz Kartel
Casino cash: $2732394
Wow, that really sucks. Addiction is a mother ****er. Prayers and positive vibes coming your way my brotha. I've had to deal with addiction problems not only myself but family members also. It's never easy. Bless up!!
Posts: 20,406
Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.Coochie liquor is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 07:13 AM   #29
rico rico is offline
ON CP YOU’RE SOMEBODY’S BITCH!
 
rico's Avatar
 

Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Da SEI
Casino cash: $4674809
Sorry to hear, man.
__________________
tl;dr

Quote:
Originally Posted by Rausch View Post
Look, I dress like a 50 year old lesbian.

http://facebook.com/thepindoctors
Posts: 13,257
rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.rico is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Old 11-19-2016, 07:27 AM   #30
Marcellus Marcellus is offline
Diablo Negro
 
Marcellus's Avatar
 

Join Date: Sep 2003
Casino cash: $3112662
Thats brutal. Sorry to hear that man.
Posts: 69,203
Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.Marcellus is obviously part of the inner Circle.
     Reply With Quote
Reply
Page 2 of 5 1 2 345

« Previous Thread | > Nzoner's Game Room < | Next Thread »

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Forum Jump




All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:52 PM.

Contact Us - ChiefsPlanet - Archive - Top

This is a test for a client's site.
Fort Worth Texas Process Servers
Covering Arlington, Fort Worth, Grand Prairie and surrounding communities.
Tarrant County, Texas and Johnson County, Texas.
Advertise with us!
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.