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Old 10-18-2016, 10:27 PM  
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This sucks..Divorce. What is the best Online "D" site to use?
Been married for 24 yrs. 2 kids (18 son and 20 daughter), he is going Ks Nat Guard/KU(Pit St) ROTC route to be an officer, she graduates in 3 yrs, major int'l studies (whatever that is) minor bus minor soc.

Wife is German, met whilst in the Army Frankfurt. Did Desert Storm etc . Left Army as Capt and started my own bus. You look back, the hand writing is on the wall.

To get married, I called the Justice of the Peace in E-town (outside Ft Knox)..what does it take to get married. 30 min, $50. Put me down for 1:00pm next day. Next call was to an attourney...what does it take to get divorced. Uncontested...$200 and 30 min. Done. Married..1992.

She is a firecracker...good and bad. Smart and a Neat Freak. Through the yrs there have been many issues. Won't go into them yet. Asked a client which happens to be a Judge, years ago about keeping the kids (after wife went weirdo and put her hand through a glass window). Judge said no way to get kids???

Years flash forward. Stuff happens...small. We have talked D.

Last couple points. She was away in Germany for a month. She is, as mentioned before, a neat freak. I built a stairway into her loft (major deal), sweep, mop, dust, the whole house...cleaned the toilets. First thing she says when she comes home was "you didn't clean the microwave".

Last night, I asked if we could snuggle for a bit. ( We don't sleep in the same room, I snore) She didn't answer, later went up to her room and she is watching a internet German Soap Opera in bed. I asked which is more important...soap or snuggle. Soap. Last straw.

Thus this post.

So, this type of stuff has happened through years and am done. I have 20 yrs left (aged 52) and don't want to do this anymore...

She doesn't love me, I want to and do...but can't. 2 way street. Thus the D word.

Really don't want it to get nasty, nor her. I found a on-line D site. You fill out the forms and take it to a judge.

Which is the best one?

I wanna have fun my next 20 yrs( sex 3 times thus far this year) , not be bitched at. Kids are gone, thus that issue is mute.

Thoughts?

Sorry, I need to see Jamal have more carries to see if he can carry the rock full time. NOW it is a football thread.

Thanks
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Old 09-25-2017, 03:11 PM   #136
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yeah dude do the divorce. You need to enjoy life. If youre not happy why stay married? It sounds like you tried for awhile to work it out. Cut bait, move on man, your kids are old enough it wont effect them. Go enjoy your life man.
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Old 09-25-2017, 03:13 PM   #137
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Thanks guys. I think I have some leverage. She has property over in Germany.

I just talked with a local attorney and got some ideas. Now I would like to visit with a BIG BOY attorney for a different view point.
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Old 09-26-2017, 12:08 AM   #138
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Done....wife said it should have happened years ago.

Talking to the attorney tomorrow and finalize stuff. Wrinkle is that the In Laws come next May for daughters college graduation and this fall, sister comes for medical treatment. So a place for them to stay. Still keep up the appearances.

Bottom line. After talking to the attorney, tomorrow, have her sign the documents stating such, thus binding.

Divorce is so common place now days. It should be a no biggie. NOT SO.
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Old 09-26-2017, 12:41 AM   #139
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That's kinda the problem that it's no biggie and common place. It is a biggie because of obvious factors. I would have waited for my first marriage but I was dumb and horny lol
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Old 09-26-2017, 03:21 AM   #140
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Stop trying to keep up appearances, man. You have been doing that for far too long anyway. They are all going to know eventually.

Just get it over with man.. I was so glad when I did.
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Old 09-26-2017, 05:33 AM   #141
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Stop trying to keep up appearances, man. You have been doing that for far too long anyway. They are all going to know eventually.

Just get it over with man.. I was so glad when I did.
This was my initial thought when reading that last post from Holladay.
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Old 09-26-2017, 06:52 AM   #142
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Stop trying to keep up appearances, man. You have been doing that for far too long anyway. They are all going to know eventually.

Just get it over with man.. I was so glad when I did.
This. If I read your post correctly, you're looking at another 7+ months of despair, anger, and, most importantly, not getting any.
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Old 09-26-2017, 09:51 AM   #143
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True, all of that. The in-laws will know about all of it...thus why?

I don't want to kick her to the curb. We need to find a place for her to live. A little breathing space/time.

I meet with the attorney, hopefully, Thursday. I will have the papers drawn up.
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True, all of that. The in-laws will know about all of it...thus why?

I don't want to kick her to the curb. We need to find a place for her to live. A little breathing space/time.

I meet with the attorney, hopefully, Thursday. I will have the papers drawn up.
**** 'hanging on' for anything - that's all HER PROBLEM! You sound like your own worst enemy.
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True, all of that. The in-laws will know about all of it...thus why?

I don't want to kick her to the curb. We need to find a place for her to live. A little breathing space/time.

I meet with the attorney, hopefully, Thursday. I will have the papers drawn up.
Be careful. That's not your problem anymore, and if you let it be your problem it will drag you down quickly.
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Stop trying to keep up appearances, man. You have been doing that for far too long anyway. They are all going to know eventually.

Just get it over with man.. I was so glad when I did.
Good point. Why try to keep up appearances?
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Old 09-26-2017, 10:07 AM   #147
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Be careful. That's not your problem anymore, and if you let it be your problem it will drag you down quickly.
This - when it's over, cut the ties and walk away, or be willing to be her sucker for the rest of your life.
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True, all of that. The in-laws will know about all of it...thus why?

I don't want to kick her to the curb. We need to find a place for her to live. A little breathing space/time.

I meet with the attorney, hopefully, Thursday. I will have the papers drawn up.
If they in-laws know all about it, then why the need to keep up appearances?

I understand you don't want to kick her to the curb. But you NEED to kick her to the curb. After the papers have been signed give her 30 days to find a new place to live. Or you find a new place to live.

It's not intended for you to be mean to her. But you need to protect your assets and your sanity. Let her flap her wings elsewhere.
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Old 09-26-2017, 10:49 AM   #149
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It's sounds like every day is hell. Why put up with it?

What going to happen when she brings home some other dude?
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Old 09-26-2017, 11:43 AM   #150
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If you have no emotional ties to the house and you can get away.. I highly recommend finding yourself a nice Little place suitable for a bachelor. Go out. See shows, be a little messy. Travel. Work out. Sure she was this and that and largely the way you guys broke up was due to her, but you played a role in it too, become a better you. Improve yourself and your mental stability will love you for it
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