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10-19-2016, 05:04 PM | #77 | |
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What I meant was that would have told me it was over. |
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10-19-2016, 06:09 PM | #78 | |
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10-19-2016, 06:11 PM | #79 |
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10-19-2016, 06:20 PM | #80 | |
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If a couple has both aspects, great! But marriages can and do survive with mature love even if the teen, heart pounding stuff is long gone |
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10-19-2016, 06:25 PM | #81 | |
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10-19-2016, 06:28 PM | #82 |
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I guess id just ask you what you think when someone says "we're in love!"
Which type of love - as I contrasted - comes to mind first? |
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10-19-2016, 06:33 PM | #83 |
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If you can come to a mutual agreement on everything and write up the terms yourself, you will both save a ton of money on the divorce. If you argue over anything, then lawyers get involved and everyone ends up pissing away a bunch of money and the attorneys make out like bandits.
I was extremely lucky and was able to do my divorce this way, so the whole thing ended up costing a couple of hundred bucks in filing fees and that was it. |
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10-19-2016, 06:51 PM | #84 | |
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I will cross post this on the Sleep Apnia thread. |
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10-19-2016, 06:52 PM | #85 | |
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Compromise, compassion, accepting their faults, respect. We could go on and on. Point is, you can love the the person all you want. If you can't accept the person for their faults. Because we all have them. If you can't compromise with that person. If you can't have compassion for them. If you have a lack of respect for them. That love will only last so long. |
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10-19-2016, 07:09 PM | #86 | |
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The post I was responding to basically acted as though love didn't matter, it's a partnership. Loving someone helps with the compromising, compassion, and respecting when you're with them day in and day out for years. |
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10-19-2016, 07:15 PM | #87 | |
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If you took 2 common phrases and asked people what their first impressions are, what would they be: 1) We're in love 2) I love my wife |
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10-19-2016, 07:41 PM | #88 |
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It comes do to this are you happy? So make a decision and go with it. Check around on costs. Life is too short. Be happy.
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10-19-2016, 08:00 PM | #89 | |
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10-19-2016, 08:01 PM | #90 |
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I will say this thread has made me thankful for what I have.
Thanks guys. |
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