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11-19-2012, 12:37 PM | #2 |
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11-19-2012, 12:38 PM | #3 |
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I wouldn't go. **** that.
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11-19-2012, 12:40 PM | #4 |
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11-19-2012, 12:40 PM | #5 |
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Have sex with him at Thanksgiving with the door UNLOCKED (vital). When your mom walks in on you two going at it she'll want nothing more to do with him.
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11-19-2012, 12:41 PM | #6 |
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Tell her all the wonderful things she did for you as a mother are the reasons you will not be going.
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11-19-2012, 12:42 PM | #7 |
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It seems to me like he shouldn't push you out of your own family. Just go and keep your distance from him. Your mother will eventually have to be the one who makes the final call on the guy, and you can't control that.
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11-19-2012, 12:43 PM | #8 |
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This is tough situation for you sorry you have to deal with that asshole. That is all he is. Sure he can be kind one minute but the next you just never know. I know people can change but it doesn't sound like he will even if he puts on a good show for the family. When he is alone with your mom that is when he will revert back to abuse. I can just tell that's what is going on.
Got to protect your mom somehow.
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11-19-2012, 12:43 PM | #9 |
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sounds fair to me.
she's making her choices...you're making yours. no since in going somewhere for a holiday where you already know it's going to be a shitty time. sec
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11-19-2012, 12:44 PM | #10 |
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last thing you want to do is have your kids see you do something silly by going.
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11-19-2012, 12:44 PM | #11 |
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I don't know what your relationship with your mom is like, but if you are really "there for her" then you should be there.
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11-19-2012, 12:45 PM | #12 |
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he can't protect her if she's allowing this guy back into her house. it's on her.
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11-19-2012, 12:46 PM | #13 |
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Not going is unfair to your kids but they're resilient and will be fine. More importantly, it sends a message to the family and the abuser that you're not going to condone that man and that you aren't joking around about it. You should be careful that your message to your mother is consistent and focused on the abuse, not all the other dynamics of the relationship.
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11-19-2012, 12:48 PM | #14 |
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I agree with this,however find out what his favorite dessert is and have your mrs make a special antifreeze treat just for him.
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11-19-2012, 12:48 PM | #15 |
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Go and just stare at the guy menacingly the entire time.
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