Relationship Problem

[RustShack]

Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

[L.A. Chieffan]

u like fishsticks?

[Pablo]

I'd think the "just as friends" line has probably been breached fella.

Confront her seriously now, or walk away from the relationship.

[KCrockaholic]

Originally Posted by GonzoRox88

I'd think the "just as friends" line has probably been breached fella.

Confront her seriously now, or walk away from the relationship.

This.

Do you know this "friend" personally? Or is it someone you've never meet?

[PhillyChiefFan]

Originally Posted by GonzoRox88

I'd think the "just as friends" line has probably been breached fella.

Confront her seriously now, or walk away from the relationship.

This.

Whether she thinks she is or not, she is in the wrong.

A friend of his is probably giving her attention and she likes it, but she would never admit that to you. Otherwise, she wouldn't want to go b/c what's in it for her?

She wants her cake and eat it too.

[Pants]

Originally Posted by RustShack

...and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?

Dude...

[Pablo]

Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.

Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either ****ing the girl, or she's someone you'd like to **** if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in ****ing. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.

So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and **** action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.

He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already.

[KCrockaholic]

Originally Posted by GonzoRox88

Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.

Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either ****ing the girl, or she's someone you'd like to **** if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in ****ing. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.

So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and **** action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.

He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already.

Harsh. But true.

[Pablo]

Originally Posted by kcrockaholic4life

Harsh. But true.

I just went through a fairly similar situation with my former fiance. I had to cut my losses, and it was pretty painful and really a shitty situation, but it had to be done.

Trust me dude. Either try to get your relationship straight like RIGHT ****ING NOW..or cut your losses and move on. Don't let this drag out any longer, it's not gonna end well for either party involved.

[Mr. Flopnuts]

Originally Posted by GonzoRox88

Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.

Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either ****ing the girl, or she's someone you'd like to **** if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in ****ing. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.

So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and **** action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.

He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already.

Bingo.

[ChiefButthurt]

Originally Posted by GonzoRox88

Think of it this way...you're a guy..so follow me here.

Most guys, particularly younger guys like you and I don't really care to have too many female "friends". You're either ****ing the girl, or she's someone you'd like to **** if the opportunity presents itself. Now, I certainly know I wouldn't personally go out to a movie with any girl I didn't have some interest in ****ing. And this dude probably thinks something like you and I.

So, even if they're "just friends" in her book, he's setting himself up for some suck and **** action down the line. And it's that simple, man. It doesn't really matter what sort of intentions your girl may have at the moment, you know this guy "friend's" intention.

He wants to bang your girl, and if he hasn't already, then you're most certainly not throwing up any roadblocks for him by not setting up certain parameters in your relationship. Either get shit set straight really quick-like, or you can plan on your relationship falling apart promptly..if it hasn't already.

Right on the money. Guys CAN NOT just be friends with chicks, no matter what SHE says. Give anyone enough rope and they will hang themselves.

[Jilly]

Originally Posted by ChiefPote

Right on the money. Guys CAN NOT just be friends with chicks, no matter what SHE says.

I think sometimes they can though. I have guys who I took baths with when I was 2, you know? Their parents were best friends with mine. They're like brothers and the thought of being with any of them in that kind of way is just gross.

[Sully]

Originally Posted by Jilly

I think sometimes they can though. I have guys who I took baths with when I was 2, you know? They're parents were best friends with mine. They're like brothers and the thought of being with any of them in that kind of way is just gross.

To be fair, though, in one of those cases...you aren't exactly the guy's "type."

[Jilly]

Originally Posted by Sully

To be fair, though, in one of those cases...you aren't exactly the guy's "type."

oh, like that would stop me, given my track record for ex boyfriends turned gay!!!

[Nzoner]

Originally Posted by Jilly

I think sometimes they can though. I have guys who I took baths with when I was 2, you know? Their parents were best friends with mine. They're like brothers and the thought of being with any of them in that kind of way is just gross.

Baths at the age of 2 with the opposite sex can turn into long nightmares,I had a bitch that stalked me into high school after one of those"just friend baths"

thanks mom and dad