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Originally Posted by alanm
For you older guys. What do you do when a woman you loved with all your heart informs you that she is seeing someone else?  |
Keep telling yourself that she doesn't want you anymore and there's nothing you can do to change that. Nothing at all. Think back to all the little signs that she was pulling away, they were probably invisible back then but clearer now. If you don't accept that its over and that you are now a single man, you will just torture yourself (that was my biggest mistake).
Make a list of all the things she did to treat you badly or that you didn't like about her. In your case, obsess on the fact that she didn't even have the integrity to break up with you first, she cheated on you instead. Replace the longing and flow of good memories with anger and bad memories.
Get out and meet people - not just women and not just for sex/relationships. Just get some friends. They are invaluable.