[BWillie]

My high school basketball coach called me "Damn it". It was my nickname. Damn it. People in school started calling me "damn it", even. Would tell us to "put a dress on" if we didn't play physical. And ran us so hard at times I puked in a trash can.

In college, I had some buddies on the football team. The assistant coaches would stop by in the cafeteria see what they were eating. For the ones who needed to gain weight, they would put some cookies and brownies on their plates. Tell them to eat up lol

All examples of bullying, verbal abuse, humiliation, promoting unhealthy eating habits, and mocking my masculinity.

I am scarred for life to this day.