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Originally Posted by rabblerouser
I just need to know if there are ANY women between the ages of, say, 23 and 42 that actually cook, clean, do laundry
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I'm sure that there are millions upon millions of women in this country in that specific age range that can cook, clean and launder their clothes.
How many women will do that for you? Probably zero.
I've never had a woman-friend, girlfriend or wife-cook for me, clean up after me or do my laundry. Those are MY responsibilities, not someone else's responsibilities. I wouldn't want to be involved with a woman that wanted to do those things for me. Better yourself. Don't spend time doting on me. Blech.
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Originally Posted by rabblerouser
don't drink excessively, don't go batshit off the rails when they DO have a couple
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I've never been a fan of women that drink excessively and quite frankly, anything other than a cocktail or two and wine. I am completely unattracted to women who drink beer, do shots, etc.
Now, if we're talking college age, that's a bit different. But a woman in her 30's and 40's, especially a single mother with children?
Again, blech.
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Originally Posted by rabblerouser
and won't **** the neighbor or suck off the pizza guy everytime your back is turned??
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This is where you're required to actually VET the person that you're considering having a relationship. Talk to her about her father, brothers and uncles. Does she have a good relationship with them and does she speak fondly of them? Meet them, speak to them. They will most likely tell you if she's a pain in the ass.
If they have kind things to say about her, you should be in the clear. If not, run as fast as you can. A woman that doesn't have a healthy relationship with her father will never have a healthy relationship with you.
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Originally Posted by rabblerouser
Someone I can CONVERSE with and have a real connection with?
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About what? Your troubles? Your past troubles? Your problems? Probably not. Start FRESH. If you're both miserable, more misery will follow. Don't dwell on the past or past relationships that have failed. Talk about the future, not the past.
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Originally Posted by rabblerouser
Someone who respects themselves and others, and are comfortable enough inside themselves to show that respect ALWAYS?
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Again, this goes back to seriously vetting the person. Bangin' around is one thing - taking children to school is another. Don't mess around with a woman you don't know. Even though you've said you've known her for 8 years, it's pretty clear that you didn't know her at all.
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Originally Posted by rabblerouser
Do they even make those anymore?
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The kind of woman that's going to cook, clean and take care of you like it's 1950? Sure. She'll also suck every pizza guy's dick behind your back because you're treating her like shit.
Man up. Take care of yourself 100%. Don't allow someone to enter your life and take it over because the end result will be the same as this failed relationship.