[CosmicPal]

1. Where did you meet these girls?

If you met them online- forget about it. Go out and meet someone in person- you'll establish a deeper relationship that way.

2. You don't need 4 chicks- particularly when the nearest one is an hour and half away...WTF, don't you have any gals in your own neighborhood?

Trust me on this- I have a history of dating multiple women at the same time. I don't do it anymore for the last time, in 2000, I was dating two gals of whom I both considered marriage material. A year later- they both found out. I was living with one at the time and she rightfully kicked me out. Needless to say, I was devastated. I didn't date two gals out of "coolness" I did it because I was insecure enough to believe one of them would dump me and I would have the other to fall back upon. It's stupid.

That was the only event- it all started back in high school when I dated 4 girls myself- all from different Shawnee Mission high schools- well, dumbazz here goes to a party- and wouldn't you know it- they all show up. Needless to say- I was the highlight of the party that night. I should have learned my lesson then, but my own insecurities keep me from dating a single gal.

You need to make the conscious decision to find the one person you want out of the group- and simply go for it. The ability to accept responsibility, is the measure of man.