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Originally Posted by Saul Good
Women are wired to seek protection and stability whereas men are looking for a physical specimen to pass on genes. This isn't to the exclusion of all else, but it's a jumping off point.
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And guys think that women think of "protection and stability" as "muscles and money". That is so not the case (at least not always). And women think that men think of looks as tits, ass, and what society thinks is perfection, which, right now anyway, means no fat. I'm not a guy, so I can't disclaim that line of thought...lol.
I just had a friend post one of those annoying pictures with quotes on them on facebook. "When you like a guy, do nothing about it and expect him to magically know and make the first move. Women's logic." To which I replied, "Back in the day, women were taught not to chase. My mother was one of these people, and I constantly heard, 'Don't chase boys. If they like you, they'll chase you.' If you like a girl, do you have to wait for a sign from her before pursuing her?"
Dating is all about games. Who should make the first move? Does a girl have to let a guy know she's interested before he'll ask her out? As a girl, how do you do that without coming on too strong? If a guy doesn't ask you out, is it because he's not interested or because you didn't send him the right signals? And heaven forbid you send signals to someone who's not interested, thus looking like a complete moron or feeling rejected.
Ugh!