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Originally Posted by KCGal
When I dated guys like this (fun and good looking but no regular job) it has been because I enjoyed their companionship but at the same time I knew I could end it at any point because they didn't have their stuff together. there was an easy out. I think that makes me a little messed up but it made sense to me at the time because I wasn't ready to settle down.
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One of my exs, now close friend, did/does this.
I found out she was dating a total loser, at least in my eyes. When asked why, she said, "because I knew sooner or later he'd do something stupid and I could leave".
I should add she's now close to 30, has a kid with very little support from the father, living overdue bill to over due bill, starting to show her age, and realizing she ****ed up in a major way.