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Originally Posted by Spott
My theory on that is that women have a natural instinct to be a nurterer. Guys that are independent, have good jobs and have their personal & financial lives don't appeal to them because they don't need "fixing" like the bad boys who don't have their sh*t together.
Another theory is that they are just really shallow and naive and think they can change some obvious loser because he has nice eyes.
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When I dated guys like this (fun and good looking but no regular job) it has been because I enjoyed their companionship but at the same time I knew I could end it at any point because they didn't have their stuff together. there was an easy out. I think that makes me a little messed up but it made sense to me at the time because I wasn't ready to settle down.