Originally Posted by stumppy
I agree with you about letting them off the leash to run with the girls every now and then. There's nothing at all wrong with that. But I don't think that's the situation here. He didn't say she was going out with the girls. He said it was with friends. Betcha $500 casino cash it's a mixed bunch. And I'll bet she's doing as much sniffing around as the swinging dicks in the group are.
I agree with you. Guarenteed mixed group, if she doesn't invite you along...there is a reason for it.
Girls/Guys nights out are one thing.
This is another. She is going out with another guy, even if it IS in a group setting, she is checking the stock, flirting and trying to test the waters of singlehood.
As soon as she has hooked another guy, you are going to get hurt.
Cut bait and run. You'll come out feeling better about yourself. She is in no way shape or form ready to move in with you.
All the psychobabble bullsh*t about feeling smoothered and wanting "her own time" is lipservice to justify it.