Originally Posted by RustShack
Say you've been with a girl for awhile, and your about to move in together. She goes to the bars with a few friends once every week or two and doesn't like you to come with. Her friend meets a guy and they start hanging out with his friends, and after a few weeks your girlfriend is going to a movie alone with one of the friends but she says its "just as friends". What would you do or think?
I'm sure I'm late in getting in with this.
But your problems began with with your girlfriend going to the bars with her friends and not including you.
"Honey? Yeah I'm going out to the meat market with my girls but you shouldn't come along."
I know it's different when you're dating (thank God I'm married now) but IMO when you're with someone, you should protect the relationship by not being "Just friends" of someone of the opposite sex where you guys would just hang out.... Just leaves open the possibility of going astray.