I feel for the singles out there...everyone always pushing you to find a mate and thinking something's wrong with you if you don't. I'm thankful to be in the marriage that I'm in, but I consider myself special and lucky and I definitely don't see it as the "norm" for people's lives. I wish we could just empower people to be who they are and to quit thinking they'd be better if they were in a relationship. I also feel for singles out there because I know most think it would be nice to find someone...but seriously, we have yet to find a good way of doing that without it becoming a meat market.
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"In most of our human relationships, we spend much of our time reassuring one another that our costumes of identity are on straight."
— Ram Dass
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