First, you seem like a very sweet girl and I enjoy your posts. I have noticed the nightly flirtations between you and Moo for several weeks on CP, and am not at all surprised that the two of you hooked up.
You must beware of men dressed up in Eddie Haskell suits claiming not to enjoy sex and other obvious BS claims that were made in your internet presence. Perhaps it is easier for a male that previously engaged in such shenanigans to see through these things, but I am having a bit of a hard time understanding how you were "fooled" by this guy. Any time a guy acts like a girl, sumpins up. Things will get better, and good luck!