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Originally Posted by RobBlake
Leave her. It will do both of them *you* a favor. A child is best served by having parents following their passions and being happy themselves. People make the mistake of dropping everything for their child, which in many cases you don't need to drop everything, but you need to change the way you approach life. It's not healthy to not give maintenance to your own life. Your child will see this, even if you put on the facade everything is okay. You're only wasting time missing out on being with someone who gives you a bolt of energy to be better you, and the same to your significant other.
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Pretty sound answer here. If "your brother" and her can be adults about it, and approach resolution amicably, then you're both looking out for the welfare of the child far more than you would be by trying to cope with each other.
Advise your brother to keep that in perspective when/if discussions begin.