Thought you were lookin for an online meat market Holladay...whoops misread

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Gotcha

Same boat for twenty some odd years. I am done, been done for years, but didn't have the balls to do it. I had a dream about it last night..confirmation.

Basic point, hit 52 last week. I got 20 yrs left. Don't wanna do this for another 20 yrs.

Then an ephanany (sp) hit...don't have too. Kids are gone etc. Change is hard, but the end result a lot of fun and no bitch to worry about hounding me.

Why do you keep saying you have 20 years left?

We used a paralegal for ours. Real cheap. It's just paperwork. Unless there is a protracted battle, that should work for you. We settled the separation of stuff before applying.

well good. I wish you well, I really do.

One thing to keep in mind.

While you're thinking of the easiest way to finalize it, she's looking at how to **** you over the hardest.

With your story you won't have any problem finding a woman who wants to have fun/live life like you do. Best wishes on your new adventure/chapter!!!!

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not always true either. But usually is - My ex didn't want that - just wanted out.

I don't know much, but I'd agree with this.

Sorry to hear about your situation. I really do hope you find happiness.

You've heard of the phrase penny wise and pound foolish, right?

you will hurt, but the best thing to do is focus on bettering your life by taking care of your needs. No relationship is perfect t but going based off your description and my own experience, she didn't appreciate you nor truly loved you. You will realize once you find a better compliment what true love is and what it means to be longed for. If you do the things you love and build yourself up positively you will find someone with a similar mindset naturally. Put yourself in the right environment.

If it involves major assets, it's always smart to lawyer up. You may think she's willing to work with you now, but feelings change and she may get contemptuous advice and bite you in the ass. Lawyer fees are worth it when dealing with valuables.. money comes and goes

Man, thanks for your thoughts.

She is a great "business partner/family manager" with a sharp german tongue! With the kids gone...don't think I need that anymore. I was fantizing about finding another girl with "match.com". Boy, I was gonna be restrictive...that prolly would blow me outta the water from the start. lol.

But the new ADVENTURE. I haven't had that for 25 yrs.

I'm thinking, she knows what is going on. She has a bunch of assets in Germany. 50/50. She doesn't want to loss those. I don't want them. Kids gone...easy. Show her the online docs...discuss..sign.

If she pulls a Linda Blair (Exorcist for you youngsters...nice tits btw), do the attorney route.

Again, she has assets, thats the leverage.

There is no affair (other dude or duddette for me...yet), just fallen out of love.

She has expecting me to have talked to the attorney. Even has said "well, what did the attorney say".

This should be fine. I just wanted some CP ideas. If you hear of mutil gun shot deaths in lil Hiawatha, you will know it didn't go as planned. BIG JOKE. some CPer's are gonna freak. hheheh

I know. That is why I have been putting this off for so long. Now, understanding my mortality of ~20 yrs (would put me at aged 72), shit or get off the pot. I will be doing both and hoping. Not that it is necessarliy bad, no abuse etc, just no fun.

I want fun. Thoughts thou, at this age, what is FUN. What makes you happy.

(DARN....NEW CAN OF WORMS)

Bed time for Bonzo

It took me too a while to figure that out for myself too.

What you see is what you get.

I make that clear from the beginning in a relationship and don't have a problem telling any woman that.