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Sure-Oz 04-16-2009 08:31 AM

I accepted his friend request a few days ago

Donger 04-16-2009 08:34 AM

Sounds like she doesn't want to move in with you.

shitgoose 04-16-2009 08:35 AM

The goddamn plane has crashed into the mountains and there are no survivors in this one.

Relationship over. Sorry man

Buehler445 04-16-2009 08:38 AM

Hey, Rust, man...doesn't sound good. I'm not saying she is 100% guilty, but that is uncool.

I think the part that is scary is you don't know her friends. My wife and I know all of each other's friends. I talk about my wife all of the time, anyway. If she doesn't want you to be around her friends there is a problem unless it is some sort of exclusive hen's night or something. To all of our friends, on either side, it is me and my wife or vice versa. It is never just me or just her.

As for male friends, it is possible for them to exist, but most of the ones that don't want to bone her are good friends with me also. I have some friends that are female that I have no intention of ****ing. It is possible, but if your girl isn't willing to include you, there are problems, not necessarily cheating, but problems with the relationship.

I think the best thing to do is be open, honest, and explicit with your concerns. She may get pissed, but at some point during the relationship you will have to communicate. If you can't do it now, whether or not she is cheating, there will be problems later.
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Demonpenz 04-16-2009 08:39 AM

i imagine all the old guys on here been through hell in back with bitches

Demonpenz 04-16-2009 08:39 AM

be strong though, don't fall into the trap of being bored and still dating her. cut your losses drink whiskey and move on like a wayne jennings listening bad mother fer

Donger 04-16-2009 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Demonpenz (Post 5674927)
i imagine all the old guys on here been through hell in back with bitches

I dated a girl named Helen Back once. It didn't end well.

Lumpy 04-16-2009 08:40 AM

I agree w/ all the other posters... I think ur hosed. However, it might be early enough to fight for her. Meaning, if u truly love this girl... tell her how much u love her, spend time w/ her, and talk to her, tell her that u don't approve of her hanging out w/ her new "friends". That's all u can do.

Sure-Oz 04-16-2009 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Lumpy (Post 5674930)
I agree w/ all the other posters... I think ur hosed. However, it might be early enough to fight for her. Meaning, if u truly love this girl... tell her how much u love her, spend time w/ her, and talk to her, tell her that u don't approve of her hanging out w/ her new "friends". That's all u can do.

be a man about it, don't be a pussy and cry and beg and sound desperate. Girls hate that shit, hell guys do too

gblowfish 04-16-2009 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Demonpenz (Post 5674927)
i imagine all the old guys on here been through hell in back with bitches

You.....have......NO IDEA.

I WANT MY RECORDS BACK....

I WANT MY RECORDS BACK!!!!!!

luv 04-16-2009 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Sure-Oz (Post 5674934)
be a man about it, don't be a pussy and cry and beg and sound desperate. Girls hate that shit, hell guys do too

I believe it's a chick giving that advice. All women are different.

Oh, and sorry if I'm wrong, Lumpy.

keg in kc 04-16-2009 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Sure-Oz (Post 5674934)
be a man about it, don't be a pussy and cry and beg and sound desperate. Girls hate that shit, hell guys do too

Just talk to her. You don't have to go all caveman either. "It's my way or the highway" is as much a sign of insecurity as "oh god baby don't leeeeeave me". You're adults. Act like it.

Sure-Oz 04-16-2009 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 5674942)
I believe it's a chick giving that advice. All women are different.

Oh, and sorry if I'm wrong, Lumpy.

I see...

Girls want to know they are loved and the guy will fight for them, but at the same time if you believe in your game then you won't come off a certain way and turn her off even more, keyword be a man should be enough for him

alpha_omega 04-16-2009 08:49 AM

Move on...quickly....if you haven't already.

Sure-Oz 04-16-2009 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 5674945)
Just talk to her. You don't have to go all caveman either. "It's my way or the highway" is as much a sign of insecurity as "oh god baby don't leeeeeave me". You're adults. Act like it.

I wasn't saying be a caveman and go ape, he just needs to be confident with himself when talking to her, im sure he's a bit insecure right now


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